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Improving Sex in Marriage | Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife | #35

On today’s episode, Dr. Dave and Dr. Liz talk with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife about healthy sexuality and why many struggle in this area. She also discusses how to develop the capacity for deeper emotional and sexual intimacy. She shares the number one goal she has for people who visit with her and her practice. Timestamps: 0:00 – Introduction: Who is Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife 2:53 – Where do you begin in your sexuality coaching with clients? 3:18 – Time, sex, and money are the top three issues for newlywed couples 6:10 – Marriage is a divine institution 7:07 – Top insights from studies and dissertation 9:40 – The number one goal is increasing people’s ability to have joy 11:49 – No other relationship matters like the one right in front of me 13:30 – Marriage struggles are not a problem, but a process 14:30 – The perfect storm 16:19 – Controlling in the marriage 18:28 – What can I do to help? 19:16 – There is nothing strange with differences in couples 20:50 – Finding more space and respect 21:35 – We love strength in people 22:43 – Perfectionism is a terror that humanity will expose us as unlovable 25:03 – Superwoman complex 26:57 – Recognize when you are stressed or anxious 28:53 – We don’t get to choose if we experience anxiety 31:11 – Being willing to face truth through the looking glass of marriage 32:33 – Where to go for more information from Jennifer 33:26 – Takeaways About Dr. Finlayson-Fife: Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is an LDS relationship and sexuality coach with a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology. Her teaching and coaching focus on helping LDS individuals and couples achieve greater satisfaction and passion in their emotional and sexual relationships. In addition to her private practice, Dr. Finlayson-Fife has created five empowering and highly reviewed online courses. Each course was designed to give LDS individuals and couples the tools requisite to creating healthier lives and stronger intimate relationships. Dr. Finlayson-Fife also offers many workshops and retreats where she teaches these life-changing principles in person. Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a frequent guest on LDS-themed podcasts about sexuality, relationships, mental health, and faith. She is also the creator and host of Room for Two, a popular sex and intimacy coaching podcast. Insights: Dave: Time, sex, and money are the top three issues for newlywed couples. Relationship happiness is often at stake with all of this. Liz: If I can’t say no, then I am not free to say yes. Dr. Finlayson-Fife: All unnecessary suffering is a part of avoiding necessary suffering. Suffering is a part of life. Decide to step into purposeful discomfort, purposeful suffering, to become stronger. Invites:    •    Make sure you can take a step back when you are following a negative pattern, ask yourself, what role you have in the pattern? How are you feeding it?    •    In the chaos, uncertainty, and anxiety of life, push for what is true. Trust the process and the honesty in your marriage, it will show you what you need to know to be stronger.    •    None of us chooses whether we experience anxiety, we only get to choose whether its productive or unproductive. Dr. Finlayson-Fife Links: https://www.finlayson-fife.com https://www.instagram.com/finlaysonfi...   / finlaysonfife      / @dr.finlayson-fife   Visit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: Strongermarriage.org podcast.strongermarriage.org Facebook: StrongerMarriage.org Instagram: @strongermarriagelife TikTok: @strongermarriagelife Dr. Dave Schramm: https://drdaveschramm.com https://drdavespeaks.com Facebook:  / drdaveusu   Facebook Marriage Group:  / 770019130329579   Facebook Parenting Group:   / 542067440314642   Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/