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A PHILOSOPHER'S VIEW ON DIVORCE: MANLY PALMER HALL

In this lecture, Manly Palmer Hall provides a philosophical and psychological perspective on the increasing prevalence of divorce, framing it as a symptom of a deeper crisis in human character and social values. He argues that the home is the foundational unit of civilization and its breakdown reflects a lack of internal discipline and spiritual integrity. The Source of Marital Failure Hall identifies several core reasons why modern relationships struggle to survive: The Conflict of Codes: Individuals are torn between an external environmental code (focused on success and luxury) and an internal moral code (focused on ideals). He suggests that over the last century, the inner code has weakened, leaving people without the spiritual resources to navigate emotional emergencies. Selfishness and Ambition: The drive for personal luxury and social competition undermines the self-sacrifice necessary for a stable home. Hall points out that luxury often removes the very discipline needed for character growth. Lack of Training: Most people are "overeducated and underlearned," meaning they have technical skills but no training in "the school of the heart" or the fundamental responsibilities of parenthood and partnership. The Role of Parenthood and Childhood A significant portion of the lecture is dedicated to the impact of the home on future generations: The Mother School: Character is largely formed in early childhood through the observation of the parents. If a child sees their parents unable to live their own moral teachings, the child’s sense of security and ethical foundation is destroyed. The Cost of the Broken Home: Hall warns that the scars of a distorted or broken home unit can last for generations, eventually weakening the entire fabric of civilization. The Duty of the Parent: To be a good parent, one must be unselfish. Hall notes that conflict often arises because parents struggle to shift their focus from their own desires to the needs of a new life. A Philosophical View on Divorce Hall suggests that divorce, while often tragic, should be viewed as a lesson rather than just an escape: The Necessity of Learning: If nothing is learned from a separation, it is a "true disaster." Both parties should examine their own lives to see their share of responsibility rather than simply blaming the other. Eliminating Hate: For a divorce to have any merit, the individuals must overcome indignation and hate. He argues that we cannot afford to damage our own souls by harboring hatred toward another. Forgiveness as Growth: The individual who comes out of a divorce wiser, kinder, and more forgiving has turned a difficult situation into an opportunity for spiritual evolution. The Path to Restoration The solution to these social ills, according to Hall, lies in the cultivation of unselfish love: The Definition of Love: True love is "perfected in loving and not in being loved." It is the ability to care for another person more than oneself. The Goal of Life: We live to release our own divinity, which is proven by the degree to which our love matures. Life is a school that continues until every lesson is learned. If you enjoyed this deep dive, please: ✅ SUBSCRIBE for more content on hidden history and cosmic wisdom. 👍 LIKE the video to help us reach more seekers.