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What's Your Business Relationship Style?

Can you adopt some of the romantic relationship language for business relationships? With Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What's your business style? Are you someone who loves a lot of primaries? Do you want some secondaries? How do you work with people? Reid: Oh my goodness. I'm wearing my Sex Geek Summer Camp shirt. This conversation must be about business, being a sex educator, and sex positive entrepreneur. This is Cathy Vartuli from theintimacydojo.com. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com Reid: Dot com. Cathy: Last night in the hot tub, we were talking about how business relationships somewhat resemble romantic relationships. We just did a video on whether your poly or monogamous, you might have a poly style. There's different polyamorous styles, where people sometimes have a V. One person is dating two other people. There's different styles. If you can take concepts that work for a community, it can be challenging to talk about polyamory as people are opening relationships and some of this languaging has worked really well. If you can adopt it and get concepts that benefit you, than why not? Grab them and run. Reid: Grab them and run. For those of you who are listening to this who aren't in the world of non-monogamy, I'll- Cathy: There's nothing wrong. Reid: There's nothing wrong. I'm going to drop in a music analogy. If you're starting a band or if you're just somebody who loves ... you want a duet team. Would you be bothered if the person on your duet plays gigs with all these other bands all the time because that's what Cathy needs as a musician? Are you going to be pissed at that and say, "No, no, no. Our duo is sacred. What are you doing?" Sometimes if the poly stuff's not working, just try to apply it to, "Well, if I was starting a band, what would that be like?" There's nothing wrong with, "I want a duo. I want to be Donnie and Marie and Marie never cuts an album with anybody else. Ever." It's okay to be the person who's like, "Oh no, I'm really slutty with my music. I want to be on everybody's albums. Make guest appearances. Do all this stuff because that makes me and the way that music comes through me happier." I'm just trying to drop in a couple of different ways of looking at this. Cathy: There's nothing right or wrong however you look at it, but having a framework and a concept that you can build on, let's you communicate with your partner and let's you know, "Hey, if I enter this business relationship, am I meeting my needs for what I like to do?" Reid: If you're the person who's like, "Marie, never with anyone else," it's really important to know that- Cathy: And tell your partner. Reid: If you need a musician who's like, "Oh, I can't wait to work with you because I just love working with all these different people. I don't get to play this kind of music that often, so this is going to be great." You can be like, "Oh no, no, no, no, no, no, we're in a monogamous duo-ship. You do not cut other albums with other people. Ever." Good for you to know that and good for the other person to know that, too. Cathy: You might have an agreement where, "Okay, we're just going to do country western together. You never do anything else country western, but you can do jazz and classical with other people." Reid: That's like, "You can do butt sex with me, but not butt sex with anybody else."