7 Mistakes That Slowly Kill Sexual Intimacy In Relationships скачать в хорошем качестве

7 Mistakes That Slowly Kill Sexual Intimacy In Relationships

Are you unintentionally harming sexual intimacy in your relationship? Even the most loving and supportive actions can sometimes reduce desire, creating emotional distance and weakening connection. Topics Covered: 👉 The seven common mistakes that harm sexual intimacy in long-term relationships. 👉 How attachment styles—anxious and avoidant—affect desire and emotional connection. 👉 Mistake 1: Treating your partner as a therapist or emotional dumping. 👉 Mistake 2: Using sex for reassurance instead of genuine desire. 👉 Mistake 3: Only connecting in the bedroom, avoiding emotional intimacy elsewhere. 👉 Mistake 4: Emotional unavailability or abandonment outside of sex. 👉 Mistake 5: Expecting sex to fix emotional disconnection. 👉 Mistake 6: Weaponizing pain or using passive-aggressive behaviors. 👉 The neurological impact of these behaviors: cortisol associations vs. bonding hormones (vasopressin, oxytocin). 👉 Practical steps to reverse these patterns and rebuild desire and connection. 👉 How repairing attachment and improving communication can restore both sexual and emotional intimacy. If you enjoyed watching this episode, you might love '5 Harsh Truths About Marriage I Would Tell My Daughter. Watch here:    • 5 Harsh Truths About Marriage I Would Tell...   Join this channel to get access to perks:    / @attachmentadam   Work with Adam Lane Smith, The Attachment Specialist: 1- https://adamlanesmith.com/?utm_source... 2- https://adamlanesmith.com/product/how... 3- https://adamlanesmith.com/product/the... 4- https://adamlanesmith.com/work-with-m... 5- https://adamlanesmith.com/attachment-... Want to learn your attachment style, and sign up for Adam's weekly newsletter? Click the link below to receive your copy and sign up now. https://adamlanesmith.com/newsletter-... If you want to know your attachment style , take our free attachment quiz: https://adamlanesmith.com/attachment-... Connect with Adam on your second preferred platform: Instagram:   / attachmentadam   TikTok:   / attachmentbro   X:   / adamlanesmith   Threads: https://www.threads.com/@attachmentadam Facebook:   / adamlanesmith   I Wish You Knew Podcast:    / @iwishyouknewpodcast   Chapters: 00:00 Introduction: Why Intimacy Fades 01:14 When Effort Makes Things Worse 02:34 Why Attraction Isn't the Key Factor 03:44 Understanding Attachment Styles 04:02 Mistake #1: Treating Your Partner Like a Therapist 05:47 Mistake #2: Using Sex for Validation 09:48 Mistake #3: Only Connecting in the Bedroom 10:50 Mistake #4: Total Emotional Unavailability 11:24 Mistake #5: Expecting Sex to Fix Emotional Disconnection 13:00 Mistake #6: Weaponizing Your Pain 14:29 Mistake #7: Scorekeeping in the Bedroom 15:37 Bonus: The Root Mistake—Unhealed Childhood Wounds 17:14 How to Heal and Rebuild Desire 20:54 Rewiring Intimacy: Next Steps 22:42 Final Thoughts and Course Info #sexualintimacy #relationshipadvice #emotionalconnection