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DNA Surprises & Family Secrets: Managing Genetic Identity Discoveries with Kara Rubenstein Deyerin

DNA Surprises: Navigating Complex Family Discoveries and High Conflict SituationsIn this compelling episode, Bill and Megan welcome Kara Rubenstein Deyerin, founder of Right to Know, to explore how DNA testing revelations can trigger high conflict situations within families. After discovering her own misattributed parentage through a DNA test, Kara became an advocate for genetic identity rights and established resources for helping families navigate these potentially volatile situations.The conversation examines how DNA surprises often intersect with high conflict personalities and complex family dynamics. Bill and Megan explore ways to manage expectations and set healthy boundaries when genetics reveal unexpected connections. Studies show approximately 10% of the population may have misattributed parentage, creating numerous opportunities for both healing and conflict within family systems.Through personal stories and professional insights, the episode addresses strategies for handling emotional reactions, rejection, and complex family dynamics. The discussion covers various scenarios—from adoption and donor conception to cases of misattributed paternity—while offering practical guidance for managing high conflict responses and maintaining emotional well-being during these discoveries.Questions we answer in this episode: How do you manage high conflict reactions to DNA surprises? What strategies help when navigating rejection from genetic relatives? How can you set healthy boundaries with newly discovered family? What resources exist for handling complex family dynamics? How do you protect your emotional well-being during this process? Key Takeaways: Support networks are crucial when managing high conflict situations Setting clear boundaries helps navigate complex family dynamics The emotional impact affects both original and newly discovered family members Processing genetic discoveries is an ongoing journey 95% of people ultimately feel knowing the truth was beneficial This episode offers valuable insights for anyone affected by unexpected genetic discoveries while providing practical strategies for managing high conflict responses. Through compassionate discussion and expert guidance, listeners will better understand how to navigate these complex family situations while maintaining their emotional health and establishing appropriate boundaries.Links & Other NotesRIGHT TO KNOW WEBSITE https://righttoknow.us/ ( https://righttoknow.us/ ) UNTANGLING YOUR ROOTS CONFERENCE https://untanglingourroots.org/ ( https://untanglingourroots.org/ ) CLASSES Conflict Influencer™ Class ( https://www.highconflicttraining.com/... ) BOOKS List of books from Right to Know website ( https://righttoknow.us/books/ ) Dating Radar ( https://www.unhookedmedia.com/stock/p... ) ARTICLES Read Michele’s blog ( https://michelehuff.com/blog/ ) OUR WEBSITE: https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/ ( https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/ ) Submit a Question for Bill and Megan ( https://highconflictinstitute.com/pod... ) All of our books can be found in our online store ( https://www.unhookedmedia.com/high-co... ) or anywhere books are sold, including as e-books. You can also find these show notes at our site ( https://highconflictinstitute.com/pod... ) as well. We are not diagnosing anyone in our discussions, merely discussing general patterns of behavior. Nor are we providing legal of therapeutic advice. Please seek the assistance of your local professionals to seek help. 00:00 - Welcome to It's All Your Fault 00:46 - Meet Kara Rubenstein Deyerin 02:20 - Right to Know 07:08 - Kara’s Story 08:52 - Scenarios and Genetic Mirroring 10:30 - Commonality 11:45 - Limits 16:50 - Legal Implications 19:56 - Accurate Paperwork 20:54 - Changing Perceptions 23:01 - Healing and Grieving 26:07 - Opportunities for Conflict 28:34 - Mistakes 29:44 - The Experience 30:55 - Support Groups 35:47 - Rejection 36:56 - Choosing Your Family 39:50 - Ever Wish You Hadn’t Known 41:46 - Last Thoughts 44:16 - Reminders & Coming Next Week: When Someone You Love Has an HCP It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People Episode 10, Season 6 April 10, 2025 ★ Episode details: https://share.transistor.fm/s/adc196a7 ★ Additional episodes: https://trustory.fm/its-all-your-fault