The Shame Spiral of “Not Doing Enough” in PDA & High-Needs Parenting скачать в хорошем качестве

The Shame Spiral of “Not Doing Enough” in PDA & High-Needs Parenting

If you’re parenting a hypersensitive, PDA, or high-needs child, you may know this feeling intimately: No matter how much effort you give, it still feels like it’s not enough. In this episode, I explore the shame spiral so many parents fall into — not because they are failing, but because their nervous system is under chronic stress and impossible demands. I share a deeply personal story, unpack the nervous-system roots of shame, and explain why effort and outcome so often get confused in high-needs parenting. We’ll also talk about why “going away” isn’t failure — and why what truly matters is learning how to come back. In this episode, you’ll learn: • Why shame is a nervous-system survival response • How conditioning and trauma fuel the belief that you’re not enough • Why your child’s challenges are not a reflection of your effort or worth • How to shift from self-attack into compassion and clarity • Why repair and return matter more than perfection • 3 powerful shifts to embrace when shame takes hold This episode is for any parent who has ever felt like they’re failing — even while giving everything they have. 👉 Read the full blog version here: https://www.illuminateu.ca/blog/the-s... 👉 Go deeper with my free ebook + video series: 7 Steps to Regulated & Resilient Parenting with Your Hypersensitive, PDA, High-Needs Child: https://www.illuminateu.ca/regulated-... You are not broken. You are not failing. And you are not alone.