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The Case For the "We" Mindset (with Jan Yuhas and Jillian Yuhas)

In a courtroom, the goal is adversarial. Me versus you. My evidence against yours. There’s a winner, a loser, and a rope that’s pulled until it snaps and one or both sides fall. We’ve been conditioned to think this is the only way to solve a problem — by defeating the person on the other side of it. But what if the problem was never the other person? What if the problem was the rope? Today’s guests, Jillian Yuhas and Jan Yuhas, are twin sisters, psychological strategists, certified mediators, and the founders of 28 Consultancy. They’re also the authors of Boundary Badass, a method for elevating your value in relationships. Together they make the case for a fundamentally different approach to conflict: stop fighting each other and start fighting the problem together. We examine the shift from me versus you to we versus the problem, how to separate your emotions from your values in the heat of a high-stakes conversation, the art of co-creation — building agreements where both people have a voice and a choice, and the discovery questions that can interrupt conflict before it escalates. Exhibits: A: From Opponents to Partners | B: Value Over Emotion | C: The Negotiated Agreement Micro-tools: Use discovery questions to interrupt discord | Practice emotional regulation before the conversation | Align to your top five values Find Jillian & Jan: 28consultancy.com | Substack: High Stakes Conversations | Book: Boundary Badass #TheCaseFor #WeMindset #ConflictResolution #Negotiation #BoundaryBadass #Leadership #EmotionalIntelligence #HighStakesConversations #CoCreation #PsychologicalStrategy #Mediation #ProfessionalDevelopment #RelationshipSkills #AttachmentStyle #CommunicationSkills