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how to decenter dating in a relationship-obsessed queer culture

in a follow up to my last video about our relationship-obsessed queer culture, today i'm sitting down to talk about HOW to decenter dating. I'll be sharing my mindset shifts and practical tips. i feel like a damn dating guru rn but if you want to free yourself from serial dating, codependent relationships, seeking validation via relationships or dating apps, this video will help you build an unshakable foundation that keeps you safe from love bombers and master manipulators HAHA if you get value from this video please subscribe and like! And follow me on IG:   / claire_holt12   And Tiktok:   / claire_holt12   00:00 - intro 00:26 - build an unshakable foundation 02:01 - spend as much time on friendships as romantic relationships 02:48 - because i don't need you, i can choose you 04:08 - they could leave = good relationship 04:49 - they could never give you everything 07:24 - be emotionally vulnerable with friends 09:23 - raise ur standards & lose interest 12:00 - if you can text all day you have no life 12:45 - bad relationship is worse than being single 13:38 - don't water yourself down 15:58 - take your interests seriously, jealousy is a tool 17:31 - do it alone 17:44 - pure willpower won't help you in relationships 18:59 - intentions and dating detox 20:11 - let your freak out