The Step-Dad Audit: A Therapist’s Guide to Vetting Partners as a Single Mom скачать в хорошем качестве

The Step-Dad Audit: A Therapist’s Guide to Vetting Partners as a Single Mom

Dating as a single mother isn't just about "chemistry"—it’s about protecting your ecosystem. As a therapist, school counselor, and a single mom who navigated a 5-year divorce, I know the pressure to find a partner can sometimes cloud our clinical judgment. In today’s video, we are conducting a "Step-Dad Audit." We’re moving past the "nice guy" exterior to look at the clinical red flags you cannot afford to ignore. We discuss the "Ego Competition" trap, how to spot a "Mommy-Seeker," and why the "6-Month Rule" is your best tool for protecting your children’s emotional stability. Your home is a sanctuary, and you are the gatekeeper. Let's make sure whoever you let in is a safe addition to your family’s journey. In this video, we cover: The "Ego Competition": Why some men feel threatened by your children. Spotting the "Mommy-Seeker": Men looking for a "soft place to land" rather than a partnership. The 3 Indicators of a "Safe" Man (Emotional Regulation, The Slow Burn, and Self-Sufficiency). The Neutral Ground Protocol: How to introduce a partner to your kids the right way. Reflective Journal Prompts: Am I attracted to who he is today, or the "help" I hope he provides tomorrow? Does he respect my hierarchy as a mother, or does he compete for my attention? What part of me feels "lonely" enough to overlook a red flag? Is his pace comfortable for me, or am I being rushed into "playing house"? What does my children’s nervous system tell me when he is around? Disclaimer: This video is for educational and entertainment purposes only and does not constitute a therapeutic relationship. If you are in crisis, please reach out to a local mental health professional or emergency services. #singlemomdating #DatingAfterDivorce #StepDadVetting #TherapistAdvice #SingleMotherhood #HealthyRelationships #VettingPartners #ParentingAfterDivorce #Boundaries