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My Husband REFUSES to Stand Up to His Mom Now I Know Why? (Part 6)

If saying no to his mom felt like drowning, would you still call him weak? This is Part 6 of my series, “My husband never stands up to his mom and I feel completely ignored.” Today we step into Ben’s world so you can feel what he feels in his body, hear what he tells himself to survive, and see why “just tell your mom no” isn’t simple at all, and by the end you will know what you can and cannot change. I promise you will never see a “mama’s boy” the same way again. I walk you through Ben’s story from childhood to now, and we look at parentification, enmeshment, triangulation, fawn response, guilt wiring, and how all of this plays out with a strong mother and a hurting marriage, and we hold compassion for Linda without excusing harm, because understanding the “why” is how you choose clean boundaries that protect your home and your heart. 👀 Who this is for: wives who feel invisible next to a powerful mother-in-law, partners who love a “mama’s boy,” and anyone who needs words for what their body has been trying to tell them. 🧠 What you’ll learn (plain-language “science” you can feel) ✅ Parentification ✅ Enmeshment ✅ Fawn response ✅ Somatic guilt ✅ Triangulation ✅ Extinction burst Series Playlist: My husband NEVER Stands Up to His Mom and I Feel Completely IGNORED:    • My Husband NEVER Stands Up To His Mom and ...   🙌 If this helped Please like, subscribe, and share this with a friend who needs the words; drop a comment with the part that hit your chest, because your story will help someone else feel less alone. Work with us + resources: 🫶 Get A Personalized Boundary Plan https://myboundaries.samcart.com/prod... 📕 Get 70+ Done-for-You Boundary Scripts: https://myboundaries.samcart.com/prod... Get the #1 Attachment Based Boundary Method: https://myboundaries.samcart.com/prod... ☎️ Submit Your Story for Review: https://www.speakpipe.com/MYB Tiktok tiktok.com/@mind_yourboundaries Instagram instagram.com/mindyourboundaries Disclaimer: While Jessica is a licensed therapist, she's not your therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended to replace the advice of medical or licensed professionals. Timestamps: 0:00 – Hook: Why He Can’t Say No to His Mom (Ben’s Story) 1:19 – Ben’s Childhood: Parentification & Enmeshment Begin 2:19 – Parentification Story #1: Becoming Mom’s Little Hero 3:11 – Parentification Story #2: Choosing Mom Over Friends 3:48 – What Is Enmeshment? Mother–Son Enmeshment Explained 4:28 – Grade School: The Family Helper (Emotional Labor) 5:12 – Teen Years: Guilt, Control, and Losing Independence 7:34 – Fawn Response: People-Pleasing as Survival 8:28 – College: Ben Meets Sarah (Stats Class & Instant Rescue) 9:42 – Engagement: Joy with a Shadow (MIL Anxiety Starts) 11:12 – First Crack: The Wedding Buffet Fight (His Lens) 12:20 – Wedding Speech: Why He Didn’t Defend His Wife 13:54 – Early Marriage: Daily Calls, Pop-Ins, Rearranging 16:18 – House Hunt: Buying 12 Minutes from Mom 17:24 – Pregnancy: MIL Takeover Framed as “Help” 18:05 – Baby Years: Firsts, Comparisons, Quiet Collapse 18:25 – Delivery Room Battle: Boundaries vs. Guilt 20:27 – After Birth: Grandma Grips Tighter, Wife Shrinks 22:38 – Age 3: Sarah Wakes Up, Ben Falls Apart (Triangulation) 24:11 – Expect the Extinction Burst: Why It Gets Louder 25:24 – What a Wife Can’t Change in a “Mama’s Boy” 25:49 – What a Wife Can Do: Boundaries, Therapy, Support 27:00 – Stepping Out of the Drama Triangle (Sarah’s Moves) 28:03 – A Hard, Kind Truth: Compassion with Limits 29:10 – Good News: Mama’s Boys Can Heal 29:56 – Cliffhanger: We Still Need to Understand Linda Mind Your Boundaries Disclaimer: The content provided on this platform is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. It does not constitute personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or create a counselor-client relationship. The topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting, you must do so with the understanding that we cannot control reactions or responses from others who may not agree with you or may feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, and you accept full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used to discuss or endorse the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are their personal views. Although we take precautions and fact-check information, they should not be considered facts, and opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before acting.