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She Found Herself Again After Her Daughter's ADHD Diagnosis | MOTHERHOOD STORY | Shar Thomas

When Shar Thomas watched an Instagram reel about ADHD, she wasn't expecting it to change her life — but it did. In this episode of Chill Like a Mother, Edmonton interior designer and mother Shar shares how her daughter's ADHD diagnosis opened up a whole new way of understanding herself, her family, and why creativity has always been her anchor. I'm Kayla Huszar, registered social worker and expressive arts therapist in Leduc, Alberta, and I've been saying for years that creativity isn't a luxury for moms — it's a mental health tool. Shar is living proof. We talk about neurodivergent parenting, creative identity, how to make time when you're out of time, and why the most interesting version of you is still in there — she just needs permission to show up. If you've been feeling creatively starved, like motherhood absorbed all the good stuff about you — watch this. It's for the moms who used to make things and miss it. In this episode: Shar shares her journey diagnosing her daughter's ADHD and the impact on family dynamics The importance of recognizing hereditary mental health conditions within the family How creativity acts as a therapeutic outlet and source of joy for mothers Practical tips for making time for creative pursuits amid busy motherhood The significance of expressing authenticity through home design and personal projects Overcoming barriers such as cost, time, and self-doubt using simple DIY approaches Celebrating small wins: completing projects, organizing spaces, and embracing imperfection The role of creativity in restoring vitality and preventing feelings of stagnation or depression Advice for utilizing childcare and support networks to foster personal growth and hobbies Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: Embracing motherhood and creativity 02:10 - Recognizing hereditary ADHD in family members 03:07 - The relief of an accurate diagnosis for children and family peace 04:51 - Personal struggles with dyslexia and self-compassion 07:42 - How creativity manifests in home décor and DIY projects 09:06 - Balancing parenthood, work, and creative outlets 10:56 - Using childcare to prioritize passions and mental health 12:49 - Creating personalized spaces that reflect children’s personalities 14:13 - The hidden talents of partners—creativity in the kitchen 16:07 - The importance of completing creative projects for fulfillment 17:38 - Overcoming procrastination and managing mental load 20:06 - Reframing the start of multiple creative pursuits as progress 21:12 - How creativity sustains energy and emotional well-being 22:42 - Small creative acts like organizing as vital self-care 24:18 - The impact of creative flow and the challenge of finding time 25:43 - Recognizing the need for creative expression as essential for vibrancy 26:10 - Comparing creative satisfaction to marathon accomplishments 27:03 - Filling your cup: simple ways to nurture your creative self 27:42 - Final thoughts: Prioritizing authenticity and joy through creativity Remember: Embrace the small wins, and don't wait for perfect moments—your creative self is vital to your well-being!