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The #1 Dating Rule That Saves You Months of Heartbreak

Thank you SoFi for sponsoring this video. Sign up here: https://www.sofi.com/Tiger What if the real dating glow-up isn’t playing hard to get, landing a rich partner, or mastering “feminine energy”… but learning how to regulate your nervous system, set clean boundaries, and stop shrinking yourself to be chosen? In today's relationship-focused episode, Jean and Cherie sit down with one of the internet’s most influential dating voices, Sabrina Zohar (The Sabrina Zohar Show), to break down the psychology behind modern love. From “If I’m too much, go find less” to the question we’re all secretly asking - "Can ambitious women actually find love?" - this episode dives into what advice is worth keeping… and what might be keeping you stuck. Tune in as they cover: 💥What “self-regulation” actually means 💥 The difference between boundaries and ultimatums 💥 Platonic vs Romantic boundaries  💥 Early signs you’re shrinking yourself in dating 💥 Popular online "dating gurus" & what they're really saying Whether you’re anxious, avoidant, healing, thriving, career-obsessed, freshly divorced, or wondering if you’re “too much”… this episode will challenge the stories you’ve absorbed about love and teach you how to choose yourself rather than strive to be 'chosen' first. TIMESTAMPS: 00:51 - Introducing Sabrina Zohar  2:20 - Defining self-regulation  5:30 - How to actually self-regulate 9:30 - Pattern recognition in trauma triggers 12:12 - Discussing the fear responses  13:40: How to co-regulate with a partner  18:55: Exploring boundaries: Why they’re important and how to set them 21:49: The reason boundaries are so uncomfortable  22:58: Setting boundaries in platonic friendships 26:50: Allowing yourself to sit with emotions  32:39: Cherie’s friendship break-up  36:20: “If I’m too much… find less” - how not to shrink yourself 43:45: Dating with detachment (from the outcome) 44:05: How to be in your growth stage 48:20: Analyzing “dating gurus” online  54:48: Conclusion and lasting thoughts 🐯👯‍♀️ We’re the Tiger Sisters: Your Wall Street & Silicon Valley big sisters Decoding Money • Power • Love ✨ New episodes every Monday | Shorts all week ✨ 💌 Want to partner with us? Sponsorships: partnerships@tigersisters.co Why trust us? ▫️ Cherie Brooke Luo — 100M+ views demystifying tech, finance & MBAs ▫️ Jean Luo — ex-Goldman Sachs, ex-Snapchat exec, 50+ AI patents, startup investor ▫️ Together: 4 Ivy League degrees • built billion-dollar products • two startups — decoded for you What you’ll get (and keep): ▫️ 🚀 Ivy League cheat sheets — no $250K tuition ▫️ Personal finance playbooks (salary, investing, negotiation) ▫️ Networking scripts behind $100M+ deals & job offers ▫️ Real conversations with CEOs, operators & investors ▫️ Mindset resets — clarity without the pricey coach ▫️ Systems for career, money, and long-term growth 💛 LET’S CONNECT ~ CHERIE Instagram — /cherie.brooke TikTok — /cherie.brooke Substack — cherieluo.substack.com LinkedIn — /cherie-luo ~ JEAN Instagram — /jeanluo_ LinkedIn — /jeanluo 👉 Hit Subscribe & tap the 🔔, then leave a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review on Spotify & Apple Podcasts. It takes 10 seconds and makes a massive difference in helping new people discover Tiger Sisters. 🛍️ Items: 🍵 Sisters Matcha — www.sistersmatcha.com 🌀 Everything else — https://amzn.to/3z0dx5b