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My Wife Calls Me Abusive – Can a Catholic Husband Still Lead?

She says you’re "abusive.” If your wife has ever called you “abusive,” “toxic” or “narcissistic” when you try to lead, this video is for you. In it, I walk through what Catholic moral theology actually says about a husband’s authority, what real abuse is, and how to examine your conscience honestly without surrendering your God-given headship. You’ll see: ⚖️ What the Church really teaches about a husband’s authority and its limits 🚨 When your behaviour truly crosses into abusive territory and must change 🛡 When “abusive” is being used as a weapon against rightful leadership 🧭 How to respond in the moment without exploding or collapsing 📅 A 4-week “respect & conflict” practice to purify your leadership Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction: When You're Called Abusive 00:24 - The Catholic Husband's Dilemma 00:44 - Setting Boundaries and Facing Accusations 01:06 - What is Abuse in Catholic Moral Theology? 01:33 - Signs of True Abuse vs. Headship 02:00 - Examining Your Conscience as a Husband 02:35 - Real Examples: Abuse or Leadership? 03:02 - A Blunt Examination of Conscience 03:25 - When Leadership Becomes Sin 03:55 - Repentance and True Headship 04:22 - The Other Side: False Accusations 04:47 - Two Stories: Abusive vs. Firm Leadership 05:21 - Knowing Which Man You Are 05:50 - How to Respond to Accusations 06:27 - Weekly Self-Examination Practice 07:07 - The Role of Prayer and Action 07:31 - Join Patriarchy School 07:57 - Share Your Story and Support Others 08:21 - Final Thoughts and Invitation This channel is for men who want to lead their homes with clarity, confidence and strength, in full obedience to Catholic teaching. If you’re stuck between fear of hurting your wife and fear of being permanently labelled “abusive,” watch this to the end. 👉 Your turn: In the comments under this video, share (briefly and without shaming your wife) whether you’ve ever been called abusive and what the situation was. I read everything and use it to shape future Daily Patriarchy episodes. 👉 Want structured help? Go to patriarchy.com and join Patriarchy Skool for step-by-step formation in Catholic headship, conflict, sex, money and fatherhood, plus 24/7 access to KnowlandBot for in-the-moment coaching. If this helped you, please: 🙏 Like the video 📩 Share it privately with a husband who’s paralysed by that word “abuse” ✅ Subscribe for daily Catholic patriarchy training for men.