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Why Love-relationships Fail

Table of Contents: 0:45 - Why the question is important 2:34 - Discovering our partner's faults and foibles 4:42 - The changing nature of our real selves 5:27 - Our desires: Carnality, companionship and spiritual transcendence 7:10 - When our desires change over time 8:44 - Boredom and our unfulfilled “what if's” 11:30 - Boredom and our fundamental discomfort with ourselves 12:52 – Impermanence and the illusion of failure 15:00 – Gratitude for what we've gained along the way 17:15 – Our attraction to darkness 19:43 – Loving each other requires the best and bravest parts of us Six reasons why our love-relationships fail: 1. We start to discover who our partners really are, and we don't like it 2. Our partners change, and we don't like who they've become 3. Our desires shift over time, and become incompatible with our partner's 4. We become bored because we're wondering what else is out there that we haven't experienced yet 5. We become bored because we're fundamentally uncomfortable with our lives and ourselves 6. We're secretly attracted to the kind of darkness that will undo our relationships