We Don’t Talk Anymore: How to Start Reconnecting When Your Relationship Feels Silent скачать в хорошем качестве

We Don’t Talk Anymore: How to Start Reconnecting When Your Relationship Feels Silent

If your relationship has gotten quiet it can feel scary and lonely. Many couples I work with as a couples therapist in Oregon tell me, “We’re not fighting… but we’re not really talking either.” I’m a couples therapist based in Oregon, and in this video I’ll walk you through what that silence often means underneath the surface, and some first steps you can take to gently reconnect. We’ll talk about: ❓Why silence and emotional distance build up over time in long‑term relationships 🚩How unspoken resentments, hurt, and exhaustion can make it feel safer not to speak 🚨Ways busy couples with kids and full lives start to feel more like “roommates” than partners 🩷Three small, realistic steps you can try to bring a little more warmth and conversation back The goal is not to push you into big, intense talks. Instead, I’ll help you think about soft check‑ins, “I statements” that don’t blame, and setting aside even a few minutes without distractions so you can remember what it’s like to feel like you’re on the same team again. If you’re a couple living in Oregon or Washington and you’re worried that the silence in your relationship means you’re “doomed,” I want you to know that this usually means the relationship is stuck, not broken. With support, many couples are able to understand what created the distance and slowly rebuild a sense of connection. If this video resonates with you and you live in Oregon or Washington, you’re welcome to reach out to learn more about couples therapy support. You can support the video by liking, subscribing, or sharing it with someone who might need to hear that they’re not alone in this.