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► This video presents Unconditional Parenting: Love your kids unconditionally and really meet their needs Unconditional parenting starts with you deciding to show unconditional love and support for your kids for who they are, not their actions or achievements. You have to accept your kids 100% - unconditionally - no matter what! You have to be consistent with both your words and your reactions. Practicing unconditional parenting means that even when your kids are screwing up or throwing tantrums you do not ignore them, scold them, you keep your calm and still show them that you love them. Children will learn the consequences of their actions even if they don't get punished or rewarded by you. With unconditional love, you heal the child’s frustration or meet the need behind the throwing of the toy more effectively. Guidelines in Unconditional Parenting In the book “Unconditional Parenting”, the author Alfie Kohn encourages parents to reconsider their typical parenting discipline style and refrain from manipulating their children. Don’t treat your kids according to their accomplishments or failures because they may feel like having to do something to earn your love. Both threats and praise show that you are trying to control your children. Praise is really an instrument of control in the sense that we teach our children that they will receive love and attention only if they obey. Unconditional parenting is about sensing what it is your kid really needs and giving it to your kid - but it also is about not compromising yourself. Positive parenting tips If your ideas do not do something good for your child but instead go against what it is your child really needs, like security, respect, comfort, space to make his / her own decisions etc., you can typically safely abandon these ideas. What you want should focus on your child’s needs Before making any decisions, try to sense where the idea comes from “Is it from your kid?” or “Does it have to be this way?” If you sense it coming from your kid, it's most likely because you have 'tuned in', 'bonded' and 'read' your child. What are your parenting strategies? Tell us in the comment section below. ► Thanks for watching! ------------------------------------------------ ► Don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE for more videos every day: https://bit.ly/2X48F5Y ------------------------------------------------ #HealthAndNutrition #UnconditionalParenting