A deep dive on the “shut-up” engagement ring and why women should care скачать в хорошем качестве

A deep dive on the “shut-up” engagement ring and why women should care

Follow ‪@CeciliaRegina‬ for great content about dating and especially “shut up rings.” She popularized that term! She’s brilliant. My patreon is here! https://patreon.com/user?u=30750491&u... My articles, podcasts , etc are here: https://linktr.ee/MelanieHamlett And if you’re feeling generous… Venmo: https://venmo.com/u/Melanie-Hamlett PayPal : https://www.paypal.me/hamlettwriting Cashapp: https://cash.app/$melaniehamlett77 People want to know what a shut-up ring is. It’s simple. It’s a ring to get you to stay with a man who doesn’t even like you because he loves the emotional labor, domestic labor, and mental load you offer for free. He’s often a gold digger himself or some form of a homosexual. He doesn’t like you, he needs you. These vampires will ruin your life and financially abuse you. This is how married single moms are created. This is how wedding cake smash happens. It’s punishment for making him commit to you. Please get a prenup and secure all your finances so you get paid for your labor. Don’t marry these men. Don’t gaslight yourself into dating these losers because of your own low self esteem, fear of being alone, etc. Have high standards, become celibate until you are ready to date if you need to. Join 4b movement or whatever it takes to protect yourself from men while you’re building your self esteem and a life you love. Because these men will steal your time and derail your life. And then they will neg you so much you won’t leave. Please don’t focus so much on marriage and the wedding and the fantasy of the wedding day and instead focus on yourself and having high standards for a partner. Don’t try to be a wife, try to accept nothing less than a partner who makes your life easier. #shutupring #engagement #engagementring #wedding #weddingday #50/50 #independentwomen #womenempowerment #4bmovement #Singlewomen #fiance #highstandards #dontsettle #patriarchyproblems #kingbaby #hobosexual #golddiger #singleandhappy #dusty #datingadvice #dating #relationshipadviceforwomen #decentermen #feminsim #melhamlett #melaniehamlett #redflags #womanism