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Are You a Scapegoat? Complex Trauma and the Hidden Roles You are Forced Into

In this episode of Adventures in Relationship, Amy unpacks scapegoating — in families, romantic relationships, workplaces, and even mental health systems. What is scapegoating? It’s what happens when harm is occurring, but accountability would destabilize the system. So instead of addressing the conditions, one person absorbs the blame. The “difficult” child. The “bitter” partner. The “unstable” employee. The “mentally ill” patient. Scapegoating is a survival pattern inside dysfunctional families. But it also shows up in marriages, in workplaces, and in cultural systems shaped by capitalism and patriarchy. When systems are imbalanced, someone carries the pressure — and when they finally react, their reaction becomes the problem. In this episode, we explore: Scapegoating in dysfunctional families The family scapegoat role and complex trauma (CPTSD) Why resentment in relationships often gets pathologized How mental health diagnoses can obscure relational harm Why the “problem person” is often responding to invisible conditions The connection between burnout, emotional outbursts, and chronic invalidation How scapegoating protects systems of power If you grew up as the scapegoat, were labeled the angry one, the dramatic one, or the problem child, this episode may help you reframe your story. If you’re navigating resentment in marriage, conflict avoidance, emotional withdrawal, or feeling chronically blamed, this conversation will offer a wider lens. We shift the question from: “Who is the problem?” to “What conditions made this response necessary?” For adults with complex trauma, this shift can be profound. Because symptoms don’t arise in a vacuum. And healing without context can become another form of gaslighting. If this resonates, consider following, rating, reviewing, or sharing this episode. It helps this work reach others navigating the aftermath of complex trauma and relational imbalance. Email me at: ⁠amy@adventuretherapyhealing.com⁠ Videos: ⁠   / @adventuresinrelationship   Insta: ⁠  / ⁠   Professional: ⁠https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/th... Podcast: ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/5qjtyXq...