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Abusive parents || "People who are close to you aren’t supposed to treat you that way" [TW]

"I wonder when this all disappears and they forget me Will I feel like I found who I was or be more empty ?" •••••••••••• I cannot comment on this. I usually do it on all my edits, but not this one. Because it suddenly felt too real, I guess. Instead of talking about me, I’m just gonna analyze my edit with the most objective point of view that I can give. However it’s my interpretation, and I’m sure many young victims will have other ones. That’s the beauty of art, man :) 0:08 - toxic mothers, very manipulative and craving for control in their daughter ‘s lives 0:15 - family dinner tables. they still scare me. 0:20 - "He’s your dad…" well, I often heard the excuse that I should forgive some abuses because they came from a parent. It doesn’t make sense, either then, either now. 0:30 - this transition means a lot to me. Billy Hargrove (from Stranger Things) crying after his father hit him, and transmitting the violence through his behavior… that’s why I put JJ after him. because violence is almost hereditary : you endured pain as a kid, you inflict pain as an adult. 0:36 - everything has already happened and nothing can fix it entirely. a piece of paper you crushed can never come back to its original flat form 0:47 to 0:54 - I had to insist on this. trauma is never good, and it becomes often worse for children. because while developing, your "foundations" as a person are broken into pieces. How are you supposed to change for the better after that ? 0:58 - guilt. used a lot to make kids think they’re the problem. like in 0:59, until 1:05. maybe I’m the one who’s wrong. maybe everything is my fault. 1:10 - it’s very paradoxical. I mean, even after all the pain, you’d give anything to protect your parent(s), 1:16 shows IT ISN’T SUPPOSED TO WORK THAT WAY 1:35 to 1:41 - abuses erase a person. a whole human being is suddenly just a punching ball. a victim. 1:46 - "I was here" "it isn’t how it should be", because the role of a guardian is to protect their child 1:53 - still, the patterns are repeated. Some abused children become abusing parents, persuased that "it worked" on them so it’ll work on their kids 2:06 - I hope I’ll do a little better than them. Because I’m going to break the cycle of violence, otherwise it will never stop. 2:18 - NO, abuse and traumas do not make you stronger. It creates a void in you only therapies can partly fill 2:29 - "You’re gonna be an amazing mom" with all the characters that we previously saw as abused children, becoming wonderful parents… I guess I needed it. 2:36 - My kids are never gonna be like me. They’re gonna be like the rest of the children. They’re gonna be happy, loved, taken care of. Like no one ever did for me. •••••••••••• F A N D O M S Teen Wolf Stranger Things Ginny and Georgia The Mentalist Harry Potter Riverdale Detroit : Become Human Jurassic World Manifest Heartstopper Outer Banks Shameless Lucifer Bridgerton Percy Jackson and the Olympians Tomb Raider Anne with an E The Hunger Games Insidious Friends Wednesday Arcane The Last of Us Captain Marvel The Hate U Give The Darkest Minds •••••••••••• Music | "My Stress" Program | PowerDirector Pro Tags | #fanvidfeed #multifandom #abusiveparents Suscribers counter | 1,000 ♡ •••••••••••• E d i t e d b y S a r a h R e i d — A l i c i a — •••••••••••• /!\ NONE OF THE VIDEOS AND THE MUSICS BELONG TO ME ! I only own the editing, and even if I say it I know YouTube will block my video, so enjoy before it’s too late ! Copyright Disclaimer Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, new reporting, teaching, scholarship, and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use.