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3 Hidden "Tests" Emotionally Unavailable People Use on You | Carl Jung

3 Hidden "Tests" Emotionally Unavailable People Use on You | Carl Jung. If you’ve ever felt like someone is playing games with your emotions—pulling you close one day, then pushing you away the next—you are likely being tested. But here is the truth: It’s not always intentional cruelty. Often, it is an unconscious mechanism emotionally unavailable people use to regulate their own fear of intimacy. In this video, we decode the 3 specific "boundary tests" avoidant partners use and, more importantly, how to stop reacting and start regulating. When you learn to spot these patterns, you stop taking them personally. You shift from an anxious state to a grounded, secure presence that commands respect. In this video, you will discover: 0:00 - Are they playing games with you? 0:23 - The truth about "unconscious" boundary testing 1:04 - Sign 1: The Push-Pull Pattern (Intermittent Reinforcement) 2:16 - Sign 2: Distance After Closeness 3:10 - Sign 3: Subtle Comparisons & Triangulation 4:19 - The First Major Shift: Observation vs. Reaction 6:31 - The Understanding Trap: Why analyzing them hurts you 9:51 - Regulated Presence: How to stay grounded 13:35 - Pattern Interruption: What to actually DO and SAY (Scripts) 17:50 - The Complete Shift: Becoming Secure 21:03 - Power Declaration Power Declaration: "My regulated nervous system is my foundation." If you are ready to reclaim your center, write this in the comments below to anchor your commitment to self-leadership. #psychology #selflove #boundaries