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Join the Blended Family Momentum Community (Skool): https://bit.ly/3XX3XJo Get the Blended Family Momentum book (discount inside Skool): https://www.blendedfamilymomentum.com Learn more about the Blended Family Momentum Accelerator: Hosted in the Skool community If you’re in a blended family and it feels like your spouse always sides with their kids, this video will explain why it happens, why it feels so personal, and what couples must change if they want to protect their marriage. Most parents are not choosing their children over their spouse on purpose. They’re reacting out of fear, guilt, loyalty conflicts, and pressure — often without realizing the damage it’s causing. In this video, Mike and Brenda Baker break down: -Why stepparents experience this as rejection -Why bio-parents become defensive -How misplaced loyalty quietly erodes trust -What healthy marital unity actually looks like -The one shift that changes everything in blended families This is not surface-level advice. This is the hard truth most blended couples never hear and exactly why resentment builds when it goes unaddressed. If your marriage feels tense, unsafe, or divided because of stepkids, parenting disagreements, or loyalty conflicts, this conversation is for you. ⏱️ CHAPTERS / TIMESTAMPS 00:00 – When your spouse always sides with their kids Why this dynamic quietly damages blended marriages 00:58 – Why this feels so personal to the stepparent Rejection vs disagreement and why trust starts to erode 02:36 – Fear, guilt, and loyalty conflicts explained Why bio-parents react defensively without realizing it 03:01 – The leadership problem no one wants to talk about Why kids don’t need friendship — they need leadership 04:49 – Marriage commitment vs parenting commitment Why your spouse must come before your children 06:35 – The long-term cost of avoiding consistency What happens when parents choose short-term peace 07:07 – An unpopular opinion about honoring your spouse What kids actually learn when marriage is not protected 08:10 – What healthy unity really looks like Listening without defending and rebuilding trust 09:27 – Why siding with kids turns spouses into roommates The hidden danger of public disagreement 10:08 – How Mike & Brenda lead their household Biblical structure, trust, and decision-making explained 13:02 – Trust builds unity, not perfect decisions Why leadership isn’t about always being right 17:07 – The one shift that changes everything Listening instead of defending plants partnership 18:54 – Choosing each other every day Why unity is built over time, not demanded instantly 20:11 – Why kids settle when marriage is secure How boundaries create stability in blended families 21:56 – Stop focusing on the dot Marriage vs children: what you’re really missing 22:44 – How the Blended Family Momentum Accelerator helps Support, structure, and step-by-step guidance inside Skool 🔍 KEY TOPICS COVERED Blended family marriage problems Spouse sides with kids Stepparent resentment Loyalty conflicts in remarriage Marriage first in blended families Biblical marriage leadership Protecting your marriage after remarriage If this video hit close to home, you don’t have to navigate it alone. We built Blended Family Momentum because we’ve lived this and we help couples walk through it step-by-step, so resentment doesn’t quietly destroy their marriage. We’d be honored to have you inside the community. Make this marriage your last and best marriage. Mike & Brenda Baker #blendedfamily #remarriage #stepparents #stepmom #stepdad #marriageadvice #coparenting #highconflictdivorce #biblicalmarriage #stepparenting #christianmarriage