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THE UNIQUE RELATIONSHIP OF FATHER AND SON Jordan Peterson THE DAD YOU NEVER HAD

0:00 RELATIONSHIP WITH FATHER 1:37 WHY BEING A PARENT IS AMAZING 2:39 VIDEO GAMES 4:01 CLICK ME RIGHT NOW !!!!!!!!!!! What kind of relationship do you have with your father it's often ambivalent right because there was an element of him that encouraged you hopefully because without the encouragement of your father man the world is a dismal place it's very difficult to be a courageous person unless you have your father in in body and spirit behind you it's very demoralizing you know because if your father rejects you or doesn't form a relationship with you it's as if the spirit of civilization has left you outside the walls as of little worth it's very difficult for people to recover from that so the father should be an encouraging force but can be a tyrannical and crushing force and so that's a very difficult thing to get right partly because if you're my son then i should impose the highest standards of behavior on you and i should always be judging what you're doing i should be judging it with with the aim of making the best in you come forward but getting that balance exactly right is very difficult it's like no i'm going to make you strong so any number of things can happen to you and when you need some care i'll be there but otherwise like out into the world with you that's the right attitude and for the father it's like get your bloody act together but i'm on your side it's because not because i want to destroy you or demean you or push you down in the dominance here because i want the best in you to emerge and so you need standards it's like what are you doing wasting your life there's way more than that to you get your act together and bring it out and that's a message that people really want to hear if they have any sense at all and generally they do want to hear it i found having children incredibly entertaining it's ridiculously entertaining thing to do because for a bunch of reasons one is that it's the only relationship you'll ever have in your life where you where you actually have a chance of establishing something that's close to perfect is with your kids because when they're delivered to you so to speak they're in some sense they're perfect and your job is to maintain that perfection if you can and you do that by being a good parent by being encouraging by being on their side by taking care of them and you can have a absolutely pristine relationship with the child that doesn't mean it's not full of trouble because it is but it's it it can easily be the best relationship you'll ever have in your life it's a real gift and you you have to play this game of protection and encouragement right protection and encouragement and get that dynamic right and then you help someone develop into something that's well exactly this that can take on the trouble of the world forthrightly and man that's what you want that'll make it worthwhile that's for sure yes you've spoken about these activities that are meaningful and how our consciousness okay so the question is can that sense of meaning be hijacked and the answer to that is absolutely absolutely you could say that the ultimate sense of meaning is composed of the union of fragmentary senses of meaning and the fragmentary sense of meaning can be overwhelmingly powerful anger sexual lust and the sorts of things that you experience when you say when you're playing a video game which are very carefully calibrated to keep you on the on the edge of exploration let's say i'm not a foe of video games because games are complicated and it isn't clear what people are doing when they're playing them you know they may be expanding their cognitive skills they may be learning to cooperate they may be learning to engage in complex problems but part of it's also a matter of balance 50 hours a week probably not unless you're going to go pro because there's other things you need to be attending to it's not a stable solution for you your family your society it's too one-sided yeah and you can get pulled down rabbit holes of all sorts that that are one-sided pursuits of meaning so ▂▂▂▂▂▂▂▂▂▂▂▂▂ ➤➤Speaker: Jordan Peterson    / jordanpe.  . https://jordanbpeterson.com/ ➤➤Video Sources: 2017 Maps of Meaning 09: Patterns of Symbolic Representation    • 2017 Maps of Meaning 09: Patterns of Symbo...   ➤➤Pexels Video https://videos.pexels.com/ ➤➤Editor: BiteSized Motivation Fair Use Disclaimer: Our purpose is to produce quality, educational and motivational video content, and to share it with our viewers. This video has no negative impact on the original works. This video is used for educational purposes. This video is transformative in nature. This channel’s owner claims no copyright, and cannot be held accountable. If you are the legal content owner of any videos used here and would like them removed, please contact [email protected] . Any infringement was not done on purpose and will be rectified to the satisfaction of all parties.