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5 Things That Make Marriage Work - Pastor Adeola Ajani

Five things that we must do to make our marriage work. 💥 Communication: It is the lifeblood of marriage; without it, your marriage cannot work. It is seeing your partner's point of view before saying anything. You must get to a place where you intentionally wear the shoes of the other person to see things from their point of view. The way you communicate also matters. Ask for what you want; don't assume your partner knows what you want because you have shown an attitude. 💥 Unconditional love and understanding: For your marriage to work you must be selfless. You are meant to both cover your weaknesses with each other's strengths and treat each other honorably by esteeming each other higher than yourself. Most marriages break up because of selfishness. So it is important to be selfless with every single thing. 💥 Do life together: Be friends. What keeps a marriage going is not just the eros love but the philos love, which is the friendship love. So your partner should be your best friend. Nobody should be closer to you than your spouse. Do everything together. Be involved in the life of your partner and family; tell them everything. You must be fully open and accountable; it is your security. 💥 Keep the spark alive: Date each other. Men should take the lead in these things. Initiate taking walks or driving together and discovering new hobbies, no matter how little. Also, let the marriage bed be hot, educate yourself, and ensure that your partner is satisfied. But note that there should be no third party in your sexual life. 💥 Be a Christian: For your marriage to work, be a practicing Christian. You have to submit, as the Word says. When you choose your emotions instead of obeying the word, you are giving the devil access to your home. If there is an issue, instead of rebelling, go to God in prayer. Be in a Christian community, pray together, and do Christianity together. Note: Trust and honesty are the currency you spend in marriage. So build trust; it is shown and earned little by little based on how you open up.