Rebuilding TRUST After an Affair (Part 1 of 3) | Complete Guide from a Couples Therapist скачать в хорошем качестве

Rebuilding TRUST After an Affair (Part 1 of 3) | Complete Guide from a Couples Therapist

“What Real Remorse Looks Like After Infidelity | Rebuilding Trust After an Affair” How do you know if your partner is truly sorry after cheating—or if they’re just trying to smooth things over and move on? In this masterclass on affair recovery, we dive deep into what real remorse looks like, how to rebuild shattered trust, and whether it’s even possible to come back stronger after infidelity. Affairs aren’t just betrayals—they’re full-blown attachment traumas. If you’ve been cheated on, you’re not just heartbroken. You’re left questioning reality, your relationship, and even your sense of self. In this video, I’ll walk you through the psychology of betrayal trauma, the step-by-step process of real repair, and the emotional work it takes for both partners to truly heal. Drawing on the research of experts like Dr. Janis Abrahms Spring (After the Affair, How Can I Forgive You?), the Gottman Institute, and clinical insights from Emotionally Focused Therapy and attachment theory, we’ll unpack: ✅ What real remorse looks like (and what it doesn’t) ✅ The trauma response of the betrayed partner—and how to support it ✅ Why trust isn’t rebuilt through apologies, but through daily actions ✅ How to create emotional safety after betrayal ✅ The difference between guilt and accountability ✅ Why rushing forgiveness backfires ✅ How rituals of connection, boundaries, and co-regulation can rebuild intimacy ✅ When and how to explore the roots of the affair ✅ What “Marriage 2.0” can look like after infidelity Whether you’re the partner who was betrayed or the one who betrayed, this video is a comprehensive guide to healing and repair after infidelity. Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction: Understanding Real Remorse After Infidelity 01:07 The Trauma of Affairs: Shattered Trust and PTSD 02:27 Steps to Real Remorse and Accountability 03:18 Rebuilding Trust: Transparency and Consistency 05:21 Handling Trauma Responses and Emotional Regulation 07:13 Rebuilding Trust Through Daily Actions 12:06 Individual Work for Both Partners 13:53 Avoiding Shame and Embracing Responsibility 15:23 Exploring the Roots of Disconnection 17:09 Conclusion: The Path to a Stronger Relationship 17:49 Final Thoughts and Call to Action Recommended Resources: 📘 After the Affair – Janis Abrahms Spring 📘 How Can I Forgive You? – Janis Abrahms Spring 📘 What Makes Love Last? – John Gottman 📘 The State of Affairs – Esther Perel 🧠 Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples – Sue Johnson Looking for more help? 👉 Visit my website: weswhitecounseling.com 👉 Subscribe for weekly videos on attachment, conflict, and connection If this video helped you, please like, subscribe, and share it with someone who needs it. Healing is possible—and you’re not alone.