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IET Week 5 – How do people become disconnected from their own needs?

"𝐈 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐫𝐮𝐧 𝐚 𝐛𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬, 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐚 𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐦, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐯𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐱 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦𝐬. 𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐬𝐤 𝐦𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭... 𝐈 𝐠𝐨 𝐛𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐤." Welcome to Week 5 of this 52-week series on the High-Functioning Individual. In this video, I answer the fundamental question: How did we get here? How does a capable, intelligent person lose the signal to their own internal needs? Many people assume this disconnection comes from a single, massive trauma. And for some, it does. But for most high-functioning individuals, the cause is much quieter. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐩𝐭: Disconnection was not a failure. It was a successful survival strategy. As I explain in this video, you likely grew up or worked in an environment where "having needs" was a liability. To survive and maintain harmony, you faced a choice: 𝐀𝐝𝐚𝐩𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 (fitting in) or 𝐀𝐮𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐭𝐲 (being yourself). You chose Adaptation. And you got very, very good at it. In this video: 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐃𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐦𝐦𝐚: Why smart people choose "survival" over "self." 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐌𝐞𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐦: How we train ourselves to view our own needs as "noise" or "selfishness." 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐨𝐬𝐭: Why you can read a room perfectly, but can't read yourself at all. This Week’s Reflection: "𝐖𝐡𝐢𝐜𝐡 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 - 𝐩𝐡𝐲𝐬𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 𝐨𝐫 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 - 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐝 𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐟𝐚𝐜𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐤, 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐢𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐥𝐲 𝐪𝐮𝐚𝐬𝐡𝐞𝐝 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐢𝐭 𝐟𝐞𝐥𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 '𝐧𝐨𝐢𝐬𝐞'?" Catch up on the series: Week 1: The Definition    • IET -  What does it actually mean to be a ...   Week 2: The Cost of Pushing Through    • IET – Why do capable people struggle more ...   Week 3: Coping vs. Self-Abandonment    • IET - When does coping quietly turn into s...   Week 4: Why Insight Doesn't Lead to Change    • IET Week 4 – Why doesn’t insight automatic...   #HighFunctioning #IET #Psychology #Neuroscience #Trauma #Habits #PersonalGrowth #DrOberdanMarianetti