13 Brutally Honest & Blunt Reasons Why Your Fetish for Japanese Men is Flawed скачать в хорошем качестве

13 Brutally Honest & Blunt Reasons Why Your Fetish for Japanese Men is Flawed

Please watch the entirety of this video before arguing with me in the comments. This is NOT a video about hate. My boyfriend is Japanese. Most of my friends in Japan are Japanese. I work for Japanese people. I am NOT racist and I don't hate anyone. Nowhere in my videos do I say that. I am simply explaining why it is stupid to have a fetish because literally every reason that you are obsessing over Japanese people is rather silly. Each of these 13 reasons are directly in response to comments that I have seen on my YouTube channel and on forums about why dating Japanese people is better. I have seen south Asians, other East Asians, white and black people defending their fetish by claiming that they like Japanese people's personalities and how they align with their own better etc.. Interracial relationships are just as beautiful as same race relationships but love should never be based on someone's race. Please actually get to know the person that you are dating and STOP obsessing over their ethnicity, race, or nationality. It is creepy and leads to nothing but heartbreak ignorance and embarrassment to both yourself and your race. There is NOTHING wrong with liking the way that your partner looks or acts. It is okay to say that you like their hair, eyes, skin, accent etc.. It is NOT okay to idolize and put someone in a box based on your assumptions about them. Saying things like I only date Asian men or I want a Japanese husband is problematic. Why? Because you clearly don't care about him as a person rather you want the status of having a Japanese partner. A lot of people do this without even realizing it. Your relationship is between you, your partner and God. If you are only dating a Japanese man because you like porn, anime, and kawaii fashion you are going to be in for a surprise when you actually date or marry a Japanese man. They are men and they are capable of lying cheating and being bad partners just like any other man. It is a lot harder to date Japanese men in comparison to the men from your home country and it is NOT just the language barrier but the cultural differences and stereotypes about YOU that will get in the way. If you are someone who is emotionally damaged, sensitive, depressed, anxious, suicidal, or clingy then you will find dating here to be hard for you. All men are different and NO not every Japanese man falls into any of the categories I mentioned in this video Captain Obvious BUT a lot do and because of that there is a massive hole in your "Asian men are better than the men in my home country" theory which is the purpose in my video. I am simply explaining why your comments about how Japanese men are better partners than white black or other Asian men is stupid. Just say that you have a fetish and do your thing. Be warned that a lot of men here will take advantage of that fetish of yours and play you hard. If you are okay with being cheated on, used, abused, manipulated, coerced and every other bad thing then by all means continue worshipping an entire race based off of fictional books and paid actors. Every bad thing that guys in your home country are capable of doing men here do as well. People tend to romanticize ad fantasize about how quiet polite and financially stable Japanese men are but don't talk about sex, emotional support, and physical or mental abuse. Japanese men are still men ladies. A lot of women here are putting up with abuse infidelity and a boring relationship just for the status of having a Japanese partner. Follow My Miscellaneous Adventures in Japan! Instagram:   / comic95   Facebook:   / comic95   Twitter: https://twitter.com/Comic95?lang=en Snapchat: comicthesavior Email: [email protected] Blog: http://www.comic95.com YouTube:    / comicninetyfive   Gaming & Entertainment PSN/Wii: CoMic95TheSavior Xbox: CoMic95 Help Support My Channel & Blog by Making a Donation PayPal Paypal.me/CoMic95 $Cash App CoMic95 Patreon   / comic95   (CoMic95TheSavior)