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The Three Texts That Actually Work to Win Back Your Ex The texts I'm about to show you win back and spark attraction with your ex because they do something most people can't do after a breakup: they shift the power dynamic without being manipulative, they create space without being cold, and they show strength without being defensive. These aren't tricks. They're not mind games. They're strategic responses that align with how human psychology actually works—especially the psychology of regret. Text #1: Accepting the Breakup The first text is the hardest one to send because it feels like giving up. But it's not. It's the opposite. When you accept the breakup clearly and calmly, you do something your ex wasn't expecting: you agree with them. Most people fight the breakup immediately. They argue. They negotiate. They try to talk their ex out of it. And all of that does is make the ex feel more certain about their decision because now they have to defend it. When you accept the breakup, you remove the resistance. You stop being the obstacle they need to overcome. And more importantly, you stop being the person they're trying to escape from. This is the text that plants the first seed of doubt, because now they're wondering: "Wait, why isn't he fighting for me?" This text respects their decision while maintaining your dignity. It's short, clear, and emotionally regulated. And it's the foundation for everything that comes after. Text #2: Acknowledging Your Initial Resistance The second text comes later—usually a week or two after the first. And this one does something powerful: it shows growth and self-awareness without apologizing for having feelings. You acknowledge that you fought the breakup at first, but you've decided to respect their choice. This text works because it shows you're not in denial, you're not stuck, and you're not spiraling. You had a reaction—which is human—but you've moved past it. This is where regret starts to build. Because now your ex is seeing that you're capable of letting them go. And for someone with commitment ambivalence or quiet BPD traits, that's the exact thing that makes them want to come back. You're no longer the safe option they can return to whenever they want. You're the one who's moving forward. Text #3: The Apology (When It's Needed) The third text is situational. If you actually did something that hurt them—not just "weren't perfect," but genuinely caused harm—you need to own it. But here's the key: you apologize once, you apologize specifically, and you don't over-apologize. Over-apologizing is just another form of begging. It says "please forgive me so we can get back together," and your ex can feel that desperation from a mile away. A real apology takes responsibility for impact, not just intent. It doesn't defend, explain, or ask for anything in return. It just names what you did, acknowledges the damage, and moves on. This text rebuilds respect. And respect is what makes someone reconsider whether they made the right choice. The Worst Text: Begging and Promising Eternal Love And then there's the text that ruins everything. The long, emotional message where you pour your heart out, tell them how much you love them, promise you'll change, and beg them not to leave. This text feels necessary in the moment. It feels like the only honest thing you can do. But it's the text that guarantees they won't come back. Because it's not about honesty. It's about desperation. And desperation repels the exact people you're trying to pull close. Let me show you exactly what these texts look like, why they work, and how to send them in a way that maximizes your chance of getting them back—or at the very least, walking away with your dignity intact.If you've been dumped, ghosted, or left on read by someone you thought was the one, you've probably already sent the text. Why Begging Destroys Attraction When someone breaks up with you, they've already made a decision. They've thought about it. They've weighed the options. And in their mind, leaving felt better than staying. That's the reality you're dealing with. When you respond with desperation—begging them not to go, promising you'll change, telling them how much you love them—you're not changing their mind. You're confirming it. You're showing them exactly why they needed to leave. Because the person they fell for wasn't desperate. The person they fell for was confident, self-contained, and whole without them. And the person sending that text is none of those things. Attraction doesn't respond to promises. It doesn't respond to logic. And it definitely doesn't respond to need. Attraction responds to value, mystery, and the fear of loss. And when you beg, you eliminate all three. To book a private relationship coaching call, with Coach Ken: realcoachken.com/