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Couples Therapy And Relationships ( The Pact Model ) with Dr. Hans Jorg Stahlschmidt

In this video, Dr. Kate Balestrieri sits down with Dr. Hans Jorg Stahlschmidt to discuss the PACT model for couples therapy and relationships. æææææææææææææææææææææææææ SUBSRIBE TODAY: https://bit.ly/ModenIntimacy æææææææææææææææææææææææææ The Pact model therapy or (Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy) is a model where the understanding of the regulation between mind and body can really help us overcome many problems in our relationships. In this episode Dr Kate and Dr Hans discuss the model where biology and each personal history interacts, creating an deeper understanding of how couples interact in their everyday life. Becoming experts on each other is crucial for overcoming all the challenges with a couple, so lets begin by taking a look on this innovative model that will definitely help us understand and acknowledge the deep triggers of the unconscious mind. Dr. Kate and Dr. Hans discuss the PACT model as a modality for working with couples to understand the roles each of their bodies dysregulation and how it plays out in their relationship. When using the PACT model, PACT-trained therapists analyze how couples regulate when stressors are present and how to treat couples when they feel dysregulated. The model looks at the way individuals regulate as well as how they regulate within the walls of their relationship. Ideally, with using the PACT model, a couple will learn to regulate together in a way that feels protective for both parties. Dr. Hans eventually shares an informative visual slide on the functionality of the nervous system. The visual shows the split of the Peripheral Nervous System and Central Nervous System. Dr. Hans goes into detail on the specific functions and purposes of the mentioned nervous systems, as well as the Autonomic, Sympathetic, and Parasympathetic Nervous System. Part of the work therapists do with PACT model therapy is to help patients and partners notice what is happening within their bodies, specifically their nervous systems. Dr. Hans gives great examples how our nervous system picks up on little things our partners do that can activate parts of our nervous system. He gives an example of a couple arguing and the tone of voice changing in one of the partners. The other partner picks up on the new “negative” tone of their voice and becomes activated. Dr. Hans describes what is happening as the partner who is triggered is picking up on old memories that remind them that a “negative tone” in someone’s voice in unsafe so they now feel unsafe and not secure. The trigger activates old fears and wounds that were present in childhood or adolescents. This is also called fight, flight, and freeze mode. When this state is activated, it can become really difficult for one to regulate their emotions and communicate effectively with their partner. This is one instance where the PACT model can be really beneficial for couples because when they work with a PACT therapist to understand and acknowledge their triggers and how their nervous system becomes activated, the therapist can teach to couple how to attune to each other’s needs in that moment. As Dr. Tatkin says, he wants couples to be experts on each other. Other videos on this topic we enjoy: The PACT Institute: What does it mean to have a secure-functioning relationship?    • The PACT Institute: What does it mean to h...   Relationships Are Hard, But Why? | Stan Tatkin | TEDxKC    • Relationships Are Hard, But Why? | Stan Ta...   To learn more about the PACT model and how it can help relationships, visit The PACT Institute: https://www.thepactinstitute.com/ To get to know Dr. Hans Jorg Stahlschmidt better, you can visit his website at: http://www.stahlschmidt-therapy.com/ To schedule an appointment with one of Modern Intimacy’s clinicians, visit our website’s contact page: https://www.modernintimacy.com/contact/ Inspired By: Veterans Health Administration VA Patient Aligned Care Team (PACT) video 1    • VA Patient Aligned Care Team (PACT) video 1   GoodTherapy An Introduction to the Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy by Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT    • An Introduction to the Psychobiological Ap...   Stan Tatkin The PACT Institute: Changing the paradigm of couple therapy    • The PACT Institute:  Changing the paradigm...   #Relationships #PACTmodel #LoveAdvice