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The Avoidant's Secret Addiction to Your Energy | Megan Weks

Are you stuck in a painful cycle with an avoidant partner who pulls you close only to push you away? It’s not about a fear of commitment—it’s an addiction to access. In this eye-opening 25-minute guide, attachment expert Megan Weks reveals the hidden nervous system loop that keeps you hooked and them in control. Discover why your warmth, patience, and emotional generosity become a "drug" for the avoidant, and how they use your energy for regulation without ever taking responsibility. Learn to spot the difference between a "refill return" (just using you to feel better) and a "growth return" (genuine change). If you're tired of sweet messages followed by painful silence, this video will give you the tools to stop leaking your energy, set powerful standards, and finally break the cycle. ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - The Difference Between Commitment and Access 01:45 - What Avoidants Are Really Addicted To 04:15 - The Hidden Loop: Your Love as Their Painkiller 07:30 - Why They Pull Away Right After Closeness 10:00 - Withdrawal from Comfort: The 3 Qualities of a Fake Return 13:20 - The Twist: Why They Look "Fine" When You Leave 16:00 - Door Tests vs. True Comebacks 18:30 - The Filter Question That Exposes Everything 21:00 - Refill Return vs. Growth Return (The Exact Markers) 24:00 - How to Protect Yourself Without Becoming Cold avoidant attachment, attachment theory, Megan Weks, narcissist, breadcrumbing, relationship advice, toxic relationships, emotional intelligence, commitment issues, relationship cycles, healing attachment wounds, anxious attachment, relationship coach, emotional labor, setting boundaries, avoidant partner, love addiction, relationship dynamics, psychological safety, self-worth. #avoidantattachment #attachmenttheory #meganweks #relationshipadvice #toxicrelationships #emotionalintelligence #commitmentissues #datingadvice #healingjourney #anxiousattachment #relationshipcoach #narcissist #breadcrumbing #selfworth #settingboundaries #emotionalhealth #loveadvice #psychology #breakthecycle #relationships The information provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional psychological advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a condition or mental health concern.