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A Woman Who Mistook Chaos for Chemistry

She didn't fall for the wrong men because she was naive. She fell for them because they felt exactly like home. The uncertainty. The hot and cold. The four-day silences followed by the kind of warmth that hit like rescue. She called it chemistry. She called it passion. She told herself that people who wanted something calmer just didn't understand what real love felt like. It took her eleven years, two heartbreaks, and a therapist asking one quiet question to finally understand what was actually happening. She wasn't addicted to those men. She was addicted to the feeling she'd learned to call love in her father's house — before she was old enough to know there was another kind. This is the story of a woman who couldn't love what didn't scare her. Who walked away from the good thing because it felt too quiet. Who stayed in the electric ones long past the point they were burning her — because her nervous system had been calibrated, long ago, to mistake the storm for the feeling. And it's the story of what it actually took to learn the difference. Themes explored: anxious attachment, trauma bonding, fear of intimacy, childhood emotional conditioning, nervous system patterns, and what it means to finally choose safe love. #psychology #psychologystories #anxiousattachmentstyle #traumabonding #attachmentstyles #emotionalhealth #mentalhealth #selfawareness #innerchildhealing #relationships #toxicrelationships #healingjourney #emotionalintelligence #narcissisticabuse #loveaddiction #fearofintimacy #psychologyfacts #facelessyoutube #relationshipadvice #childhoodtrauma