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"I Validate Him, He Ignores Me" — Why Communication Fails

Does it feel like no matter how "perfectly" you communicate or validate him, you’re still being ignored? If you feel like you are constantly over-giving, "walking on eggshells," or trying to treat him exactly how you want to be treated—only to be met with silence or defensiveness—this Q&A is for you. In this live session, we dig into why the "Golden Rule" often backfires in marriage and how to distinguish between a partner who is overwhelmed/exhausted and one who is emotionally dismissing you. We also cover practical tools for those who feel "not good with words" or afraid to speak up honestly. In this video, we cover: Why "validating him" isn't working the way you think it should. The "Golden Rule" Trap: Why giving him what you need pushes him away. How to tell the difference between defensiveness and pure exhaustion. A specific script for respectful communication during conflict. CHAPTERS: 0:00 - Intro: "I Validate Him, He Ignores Me" 01:58 - Marriage Advice for New Parents (Survival Mode) 03:04 - What Active Listening Actually Looks Like 06:33 - "I'm Not Good With Words" (When Speaking Up is Scary) 08:32 - Q&A: Over-Explaining & Feeling Unsupported 09:10 - The "Golden Rule" Trap: Are You Over-Giving? 11:53 - How to Ask Your Partner What They Actually Need 14:00 - When He Dismisses Your Feelings (Is It Abuse?) 17:34 - Defensiveness vs. Exhaustion: Reading the Signs 22:14 - Resource: "Before You Leave, Do These 5 Things" 24:30 - Dr. Elena’s Conflict Repair Process 27:36 - One Phrase to Instantly Shift Communication RELATED RESOURCES: If you are questioning your marriage and need clarity on whether this is just a hard season or something more toxic, check out my guide: "Before You Leave, Do These 5 Things" (   • Before You Leave Your Marriage, Do These 5...  . #marriageadvice #relationshipstruggles #emotionalabuse #communication #marriageproblems #walkingoneggshells #DrElenaSherwood