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Trust Over Control: The Real Work Of Parenting

The most honest moments in parenting show up where control ends and trust begins. We sat down to map that messy, meaningful stretch between childhood and early adulthood: teens who want to self-solve, parents who want to protect, and the space where both can grow. From chaotic Guatemalan roads where our daughter learned to drive to the quiet car rides back from the gym with our son, we share how independence is built in real time, through practice, patience, and a lot of deep breaths. We talk about trading lectures for curiosity, the small language shifts that lower defenses, and why inviting feedback from teens only works if we don’t weaponize their words later. You’ll hear how we divide and conquer based on strengths, create one-on-one rhythms tailored to each kid, and keep consequence and compassion in the same room. Chores and allowance become a microcosm of accountability, where attitude counts as much as output and consistency beats intensity. Faith shows up as daily presence rather than forced formality: reliable mornings, warm goodnights, and a standing invitation to tell the truth. As our daughter prepares for college and a life stateside after growing up in Central America, we’re practicing release without withdrawal, equipping her to handle applications, licenses, and new communities while reminding her she’s never more than a call away. Meanwhile, the gym has become a bonding lab with our son, where effort rewrites tough school days and confidence grows one rep at a time. If you’re navigating teen independence, trust, and connection, this conversation offers practical ideas and hard-won reassurance that progress doesn’t look perfect. If this resonated, follow the show, share it with a friend, and leave a quick review, what’s one ritual that helps you stay close to your teen?