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Why Connection Terrifies You (Even Though You Crave It)

Have you ever noticed that you desperately want closeness, but the moment someone actually tries to get close to you, something inside you panics? You might freeze, pull away, or suddenly feel like you need to protect yourself, even if you don't know why. It is a painful contradiction: to be starving for intimacy while simultaneously being terrified of it. In this video, we explore the "Safety Paradox"—why your nervous system might view love as a threat rather than a comfort. We break down the signs of a "Vulnerability Hangover," why you might be mistaking anxiety for chemistry, and how to retrain your brain to see connection as safe. Timestamps: 0:00 - The "Relatable Diagnostic": Do you panic when people get close? 0:50 - 3 Signs your brain is protecting you (The "Vulnerability Hangover") 2:00 - The Science: Why your amygdala views kindness as a risk 3:30 - How to practice "Paced Vulnerability" & build trust 4:30 - A question for you: One small step to let someone in Let us know in the comments: What is one small step you can take today to let someone in? Is it sending a text? Is it simply admitting that you're tired? Share your thoughts below—your story might help someone else feel less alone. Disclaimer: This video is for educational purposes and is not a substitute for professional advice. If you are struggling with severe anxiety or trauma, please seek help from a mental health professional.