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Podcast S9E4 - Why are so many nursery children not ready for school and what actually helps?

More children are starting school without the skills they need to feel confident, settled, and ready to learn — and it’s not because parents don’t care. In this episode, Ashley explores why so many nursery-aged children are being described as “not school ready,” what professionals across early years and education are seeing, and how small, everyday changes at home can make a big difference. With warmth, honesty, and practical guidance, this episode covers speech and language development, independence, toileting, screen use, and the simple skills that truly prepare children for school — without panic, blame, or unrealistic expectations. In this episode, we cover: What “school readiness” really means (and what it doesn’t) Why more children are struggling with communication, regulation, and independence The rise in speech and language delays in nursery-aged children Why toilet training is an important part of school readiness The impact of screen use on communication and social skills Why iPads at the table don’t support language development How independence, turn-taking, and conversation build confidence What parents can do — practically and gently — to support readiness at home Why school readiness isn’t about pushing children faster, but building strong foundations Practical takeaways: Create screen-free mealtimes to encourage conversation Practise turn-taking through games and everyday interactions Support toilet training with consistency and gentle leadership Build independence through everyday tasks Reduce background noise and increase face-to-face interaction Focus on emotional coaching, not perfection Key reminder: School readiness isn’t about academic ability — it’s about communication, connection, independence, and confidence. Small, consistent changes at home can make a powerful difference in helping children feel safe, capable, and ready for the transition to school. Who This Episode Is For: Parents of nursery and pre-school children Early years practitioners and educators Parents feeling unsure or worried about school readiness Anyone wanting practical, realistic guidance without judgement Resources & Support If you’d like more support around emotional regulation, confidence, and helping children feel ready for big transitions, explore Ashley’s work at The Resilient Kid, including workshops, resources, and the Resilient Kid Programme for families and schools. If This Episode Helped Please consider sharing it with another parent, nursery, or school who may find it useful. Your shares help these conversations reach the families who need them most. 🎧 Share this episode with a teacher or parent supporting a child who feels “not quite themselves” right now. Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/episode/0eog... YouTube – Resources & Support If you need support, you can reach out via social media or email ashley@theresilientkid.co.uk. We have an Anxiety Workshop coming up in February for £25, which includes a 60-minute session and a 30-minute Q&A. Sign up here - https://www.theresilientacademy.co.uk... Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction: The School Readiness Crisis 01:31 Understanding School Readiness 02:05 Communication and Emotional Regulation 02:29 The Role of Independence and Social Skills 03:06 Challenges in School Readiness 03:33 Impact of Screen Time on Development 06:16 Practical Tips for Reducing Screen Time 07:29 Building Independence in Daily Routines 10:23 Toilet Training: Overcoming the Challenges 16:33 Enhancing Speech and Language Skills 27:26 Final Thoughts and Encouragement 31:00 Conclusion and Resources Find all the resources in our Listeners Lounge https://www.theresilientacademy.co.uk... Useful Links Sign up to our newsletter: https://dashboard.mailerlite.com/form... Get “A Parent’s Guide To Raising A Resilient Kid”: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1739302605 Facebook:   / resilientkiduk   Instagram:   / theresilientkid   LinkedIn:   / resilientkid   Pinterest:   / resilientacademy   YouTube:    / @theresilientkid957   Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... Website: https://www.theresilientacademy.co.uk