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Why you keep falling for people who don't treat you well.

🤯 The end will blow your mind! Self-verification theory explains why, when we have negative self-concepts, we end up with people who feel negatively about us. It also explains why, when we feel negatively about ourselves, we subconsciously reject or distrust others’ love, care, and affection. Instead of accepting their love, we’ll think that they’re lying; that it’s a fluke; or that they don’t actually see us fully, and once they do, they won’t love us anymore. My book, Stop People Pleasing and Find Your Power at the l!ink in my bio, explores how we can rewrite our self-concept to enhance our self-respect and RECEIVE others’ love, respect, and care. Pre-order today at the link in my bio! Citations! 👉 Sanaz Talaifar and William B. Swann, “Self-Verification Theory,” in Encyclopedia of Personality and Individual Differences (New York: Springer, 2017), 1–9. 👉 Raymond M. Bergner and James R. Holmes, “Self-Concepts and Self-Concept Change: A Status Dynamic Approach,” Psychotherapy 37, no. 1 (January 1, 2000): 36–44. #psychology #socialpsychology #learningmoment #psychologyresearch #mentalhealth #peoplepleasing #funfacts #inspirational #boundaries #stoppeoplepleasing #selfcare #selflove #selfrespect #anxiousattachment #youareenough #mindblown