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How To Prepare To Be A Godly Wife | Paul Friedman

Are you visioning and preparing to be a godly wife? Watch Paul tells you the secret on how to achieve it and for you to make it happen. I love this topic because if you're asking this question you have a deep faith in God. You want to live according to God's will and you want to live in God's joy. God is represented so much in so much scripture as joy, as love and we forget that. Sometimes we just think about God who punishes us when we're bad but that's not what's so beautiful. What's so beautiful is living in God's joy, God's love. When you get married it's a microcosm of very spiritual life. Marriage is a spiritual endeavor it's where you want to feel the joy of God. You want to feel God's love. You want to be in God's presence because what is more joyful than God than living in God's love? What could be possibly more joyful than that? If you want to live a Godly life, that's exactly what you should be thinking about. You should be thinking about how do we make this marriage joyful. You don't always want to refer back to scripture every time you're thinking, how should I behave? What should I do? This is something that should become automatic within you and so that's what brings up for me the most important aspect of marriage. I'm going to talk more about living in as a godly wife and I'm also going to talk about how your husband should be living a godly husband's life because both are very important. And unfortunately, so many very good people just refer to scripture and they cherry-pick. Unknowingly, they cherry-pick certain aspects of the scripture that really doesn't resonate with sort of a common-sense approach. I'll give you a great example and this is more about your husband. Many scriptures in many religions talk about the man is the head of the household and the wife should be obedient. Unfortunately, men take this as permission to be like the god in the house who's a mean god that he commands his wife, that he rules over his wife. He punishes his wife. It's preposterous and it's crazy because man's role is that of a protector and he should never turn his weapons on his wife or his children. They should be used to protect and this is one of the biggest mistakes that men make and I always use this example. Imagine if and I use this for men, but imagine if a man is a bodyguard to somebody maybe even for years and they get along well because it's a close relationship. And then one day, the bodyguard says, "You know what I could do to you?" And he doesn't do it directly, he jokingly points the gun at him. It's over. That bodyguard is going to be fired but men, their power, their gun comes in stages. It could be a stern look at someone if they're crossing the line. Let's say another man is looking at his wife in a way that is very sexual. His first reaction might be, "Hey, this power." Well, that hey is a strong power. He should never do hey to his wife. Okay, tell your husband to be to take a look at my videos on this topic but for you, there's a lot of confusion. I'm going to try to unwrap this as they say so that it's not confusing. The role of a godly wife is to nurture, to care for, to unconditionally love her husband. That doesn't mean that he should be able to abuse her but you have to be very careful. The mind is a very tricky thing and what happens in our more liberated consciousness world right now. People are misconstruing these ideas and these ideals and they don't understand them. So being loving means being loving, it doesn't mean being a doormat but it also doesn't mean being resentful if your husband crosses the line. And the line is subjective, sometimes it's objective but it's usually subjective and that's where you have to be most careful. The mind you see is a tool that you have. You're a soul and you have a mind and you have a body. What's happening here and it's very cool if you look at it this way so try and really hear this. The body is biological. You come into this. You inherit this body but it's biological, it's animal and what do we know scientifically, we know that every living thing is imbued with the drive to survive. Not necessarily a consciousness but a drive to survive even a plant, even a single cell amoeba everything -- drive to survive. You put these trillions of cells together that comprise your body -- it's all about survival and the interrelationship between your body and your mind is very close, isn't it? And so, if you see "danger" and I put that in quotes because again it's personal but if you see danger, your mind puts up its defenses. Sometimes those defenses are offensive. Who knows it depends on the individual so what's happening is, your mind has become also driven by the drive to survive. But you as a soul are obligated to control your mind, you're not supposed to let your mind control you. Watch the video for more. #premarital #unconditionallove #marriagetips #lovewins #marriageprogram #marriagecommitment