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How to Move from Transmitting Your Pain to Transforming Your Pain after an Affair

One of my favorite authors, Richard Rhor, states over and over again in his writings that we can choose to ‘transmit our pain… or transform our pain.’ I’ve seen me at my worst, and I can be an expert at transmitting my pain to friends, family, innocent bystanders, umpires, you name it. I’ve also experienced the rich and lasting feeling when I have been able to see my own inner pain transformed into a vessel to help others heal. When we rage at others, and when we lash out at our significant others or family members, we’re transmitting our pain. When we refuse to take ownership of our own inner trauma and project it onto others, we’re transmitting our pain. Alternatively, when we can take our pain and learn from it, absorb it, and use it for good in our own lives first, we are transforming our pain. I hope today’s video helps you in your own journey of healing and personal transformation. FREE Bootcamp for Surviving Infidelity: https://www.affairrecovery.com/surviv... What kind of affair was it? Take the FREE Affair Analyzer:  https://www.affairrecovery.com/affair... FREE Expert Articles & Videos: https://www.affairrecovery.com/free-r... Get a Recovery Library Membership: https://www.affairrecovery.com/produc... Access 3,000+ Q&A Videos, Articles and Mentor Stories Get answers from 1,500+ Expert Q&A Videos (Like this one!) Talk with others in the private Recovery Library Forums “The Recovery Library gave me 24/7 support because I could be up at 3am and search for the topic I was struggling with. It also helped as a couple because we could investigate topics together so it wasn’t subjective. I trusted this information because it was from professionals who also had lived through and recovered from infidelity. Double credibility in my book.”  - Amanda, Florida HEAL with Affair Recovery: Weekend Retreat: https://www.affairrecovery.com/produc... Online Courses: https://www.affairrecovery.com/progra... Hope Rising Conference: https://www.affairrecovery.com/hope-r... Recovery Library: https://www.affairrecovery.com/produc...   Samuel is an infidelity survivor and is one of many contributors to Affair Recovery's Survivors’ Blog, https://www.affairrecovery.com/our-blog. He participated in Affair Recovery's courses developed by founder and infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW. After finding healing, hope, and new life, Samuel wishes to share his journey and what AffairRecovery.com has to offer with others so they too can find hope and healing.