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The Truth About Marriage Most People Ignore | Ustadh Baajour

Bond | 2/7/26 – Marriage as a Miracle: Readiness, Maturity & Realistic Expectations In this foundational session of Bond, Ustadh Baajour on the purpose, beauty, and responsibility of marriage in Islam. The speakers begin with reflections on personal experience before grounding the conversation in a powerful reminder: Allah has already detailed the framework for marriage, and within it lies wisdom, structure, and mercy. The session explores marriage not merely as a social milestone, but as a miracle—one designed to cultivate sakina (tranquility) between spouses. Importantly, sakina is described not as an automatic outcome, but as an ongoing process that requires intentional effort, growth, and spiritual alignment. The importance of seeking knowledge through classes like this is emphasized as a proactive step toward healthier unions. As the workshop unfolds, participants are invited to reflect on their immediate associations with the word “marriage,” leading into a broader discussion about the age of marriage and how cultural expectations can sometimes overshadow individual readiness. A substantial portion of the session contrasts emotional maturity and financial stability, challenging the audience to evaluate which truly sustains a marriage long term. The conversation then addresses a common but dangerous assumption: expecting a potential spouse to change after marriage. The speakers caution against entering marriage with hopes of “fixing” or reshaping someone, reinforcing the need for clarity and realistic expectations from the outset. 0:00:00 Introduction 0:01:30 UB's Experience 0:02:35 Importance of Getting Married 0:03:13 Allah has detailed the details 0:04:40 Marriage is a Miracle 0:07:20 Sakina between Spouses is an Ongoing Process 0:08:20 Importance of Classes like these 0:10:30 The Process for this Workshop 0:13:43 The First Word that comes to mind when you hear "Marriage" 0:18:15 The Age of Marriage 0:34:00 Emotional Maturity vs Financial Stability 0:50:30 Expecting a Potential Spouse to Change Later 0:55:16 Summary 0:58:20 Q&A