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They HURT You… Why Do You MISS Them?

They HURT you… so why do you still MISS them? Missing someone who caused you pain can feel confusing, frustrating, and even embarrassing. But the truth is, this emotional contradiction has a psychological explanation. In this video, we explore the psychology of attachment, emotional trauma, trauma bonding, and why you can still miss someone who hurt you. When a relationship ends, you don’t just lose a person — you lose a bond, a routine, and a version of yourself. We’ll talk about: • Why attachment doesn’t disappear when pain appears • The psychology behind missing someone who hurt you • Trauma bonding and emotional dependency • Why your brain remembers the good more than the bad • Self-blame after emotional betrayal • How to emotionally detach in a healthy way • Healing from toxic relationships If you’ve ever struggled with trust issues, emotional confusion, relationship trauma, or feeling attached to someone who wasn’t good for you, this video will help you understand what’s really happening inside your mind. Missing them doesn’t mean the relationship was healthy. It means the bond was significant. Watch until the end to understand the difference between love, attachment, and emotional habit — and how to move forward without losing yourself. 00:00 – They Hurt You… So Why Do You Miss Them? 01:15 – You Don’t Miss the Pain, You Miss the Bond 04:40 – Why Attachment Doesn’t Turn Off Automatically 08:05 – Missing Who You Were in the Relationship 11:50 – Why Your Brain Remembers the Good More 15:30 – Trauma Bonding Explained 19:20 – Missing Someone Doesn’t Mean You Should Go Back 23:45 – How to Heal and Emotionally Detach