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Enneagram 6 Interview - Courtney Smith

Courtney Smith [SO/SP 6w5 631] is a brilliant & original Enneagram thinker who has contributed hugely to our understanding of Object Relations. In this conversation, we explore her life as a 6 navigating her desire to work within systems and to rebel against them, and ultimately cultivating a more grounded relationship to her inner authority. Courtney's insights are illuminating and penetrating as always. Courtney's Website: https://www.courtneysmithconsulting.com/ Courtney on BHE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Podcast version of this interview: https://www.joshlavine.com/podcasts/w... The first, audio-only interview: https://www.joshlavine.com/podcasts/w... The Enneagram School: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/ Get typed: https://enneagrammer.com/ Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 3:15 Interview Start & Josh's messy hair 4:30 Setting up Courtney's biography 5:36 Do you hold a sense of your life story as a 6? 6:53 Professional trajectory as the way in; family all doctors & lawyers roles, safe, traditional 8:22 Law school, annoying incongruence, "It'd be easier if I liked this!" 9:23 Gender & Enneagram lens in college, split & trying to integrate analytical & quantitative, only-women-in-math-class and no-men-in-women's-studies; what's my place? 10:30 8 yrs old, "Mom, I'm not gonna stay here" -- wanting out, but not knowing "What do you want to go toward?" 13:20 Courtney's choice of major and minor mathematical economics & women's studies, navigating polarities; qualitative/quantitative, men/women 17:20 "Trying to have it both ways": high achieving within a system & rebelling against the system 20:23 At McKinsey, working super hard, doing what I'm "supposed to do," and disagreeing with it all 25:44 "If it's listened to..."; 6s feeling a lack of agency to shape reality, not willing to risk external authority's alliance; "There's nothing I can do about this. I have no choice." 31:16 Josh's 6 fix relating 33:52 Considered med school, then had baby - focus on reproductive justice, planned parenthood 36:09 focusing only on family was a "bad choice for me" -- left behind key aspects of self 38:33 Self-abandonment: Not taking responsibility for poor choices; "I had no choice!"; none of the credit, none of the blame 43:12 Shift of personal development work, conscious leadership group; "I have to take responsibility" for where I am 46:19 Before and after inner work; changed my life, but "your shit is your shit," esp in "real life" raising kids, home during covid, etc -- you get a new relationship to your patterns 52:11 Relationship now to public health, new life as coach 54:11 New relationship to the inner storm, reactivity; part of me watching myself have a tantrum, not taking it too seriously 57:39 Courtney's playfulness 1:00:30 6s & body work; getting lost in idea-space and finding the inner compass somatically; "Truth lies in the body" 1:07:47 Compulsive reading; skepticism: "I wanna check this out for myself," check people's sources, put the picture together from the ground up 1:11:32 6's devotional heart, contributing to greater whole 1:13:34 On working alone; not questioning life path any more, but still micro-questions about form of current work 1:16:37 Courtney the dragon; being myself the biggest gift I can give 1:20:37 Safari experience: "What you're transmitting is amazing and has nothing to do with your words"; Ian McGilchrist book, left-right brain language - non-language communication 1:28:00 What's this been like? --- Music by Coma-Media from Pixabay Coma-Media: https://pixabay.com/users/coma-media-... Pixabay: https://pixabay.com/ --- #enneagram #enneagramtypes #enneagram6 #enneagramtype6 #enneagraminterview