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Why Don’t Fathers Get a Fair Shake in Divorce Court?

I want to address the general question that I often get: Why do dads get hosed in divorce in family law cases? First of all, let me acknowledge I'm a dad and I understand how that feels when you go through a situation like that, that you might feel like you're not going to get a fair shake because you're a man. I want to tell you first and foremost that Oklahoma law is on your side. It specifically states an Oklahoma law that you are not supposed to have any preference working against you, and that there's no preference for gender when it comes to parental rights. We'll start there. If they do, why do men get an unfair shake in court and divorce court? I'm going to go through four basic reasons why that happens. The first reason. You just give up. When you're going through a custody or divorce battle, you need to understand that this is a long-term problem. Divorce is at a minimum and the most efficient way if there are children involved takes three months. You can't get a divorce any sooner than that. Most of the time they take six months to a year if they're contested or if they're contentious. One thing that you need to do is to prepare your mind, prepare your financial life, and prepare your emotional life in such a way that you expect a protracted matter. It's going to take a while. Many of my clients, if they get frustrated, give up in various ways. They'll stop paying their attorney. They'll stop communicating with their attorney. They will stop trying to communicate with the mother of the children or child. They just give up. You cannot do that. You need to trust your lawyer to move the case along as efficiently as it's as practical to get you a good result. Don't give up. The second reason that men sometimes don't get what they need or want in core when it comes to a custody case is that they mess up. Many times I am giving legal advice and you will find it, and any good lawyer, a family law lawyer is this way. You will find it intermingled with personal advice. Why is that? The family law court has two main concerns. Number one is equity. Okay? That means fairness. What is fair if you're dividing assets and debts and whatnot? Need a Father's Rights Attorney? Give us a call at (918) 986-7724 or submit a legal question at https://tulsafathersrights.lawyer/ Want The Transcript? https://tulsafathersrights.lawyer/fam... Join The Oklahoma Fathers Rights Group! Have a legal question concerning your rights as a father? There's a Facebook Group for that. Join me and the discussion by clicking the link and hitting "Join:"   / oklahoma.fathers.rights