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IFS Therapist: How to Befriend Your Inner Critic

We’re all familiar with that voice: the one that tells you that you're not enough; the one that criticizes every mistake you make; the one that berates and even torments you. The voice I’m talking about is your “inner critic.” In my experience as an LGBTQ therapist, gay men frequently struggle with a particularly persistent inner critic. One powerful approach to overcoming shame is Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, which can be particularly helpful for gay men in silencing their inner critic once and for all. Below is an exercise that can help you begin this process. While it’s most effective to go through this exercise with a therapist, you can still engage in this self-reflection on your own. What does your inner critic look like? Does it have a particular appearance or shape? What does it sound like? Is there a specific tone or voice you recognize when it speaks? What does it feel like? How do you know when your inner critic is present? Does it manifest physically (tightness in your chest, nervousness, etc.)? What does your inner critic frequently say to you? What does it want you to hear? What kinds of things does it criticize or judge? What is the critic trying to protect you from? Think about what it might be safeguarding you from—perhaps rejection, failure, or embarrassment. How old is this part? Try to reflect on when your inner critic first began to emerge. Is it tied to a specific time in your life? The inner critic can feel like an enemy, but when we engage with it in a compassionate and curious way, we begin to dismantle its harmful influence. By using approaches like Internal Family Systems therapy, gay men—and really anyone struggling with self-doubt—can begin to shift the internal dialogue from criticism to understanding. Have you struggled with an inner critic? Curious to hear your thoughts and experiences :) #therapy #ifs #internalfamilysystems #innercritic #mentalhealth #therapist #psychology #selfhelp #innercritic #ifstherapy #gaymenhealing #queermentalhealth #selfcompassion #partswork #lgbtqtherapist #healingjourney #shameresilience #selfacceptance