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Stop Feeling Like a Bad Daughter: From Obligation to Choice, Relearning How to Show Up

Ep. 16: Stop Feeling Like a “Bad Daughter” From Obligation to Choice: Relearning How to Show Up with Immigrant Parents Join my Free Training: Discover the secret to feeling more emotionally secure when spending time with your immigrant parents without people pleasing & spiraling in guilt ➡️ https://heyallisonly.com/secret I shared my story as a daughter of immigrant parents and why this work around guilt, people pleasing, and emotional self-care matters so deeply. I talk about the invisible emotional weight many adults with immigrant parents carry, the pressure to always show up, and how guilt and negative self-talk can quietly drive our choices without us even realizing it. This episode explores: Why small moments with immigrant parents can feel unexpectedly heavy What happens when you force yourself to show up when you’re already depleted Why self-care isn’t selfish, especially in immigrant families How learning emotional regulation skills can help you feel better sooner The importance of repair Why boundaries don’t mean you love your parents less This episode is for adults with immigrant parents who: Feel stuck between caring for themselves and caring for family Struggle with guilt, resentment, or people pleasing Want healthier relationships without cutting ties Are tired of feeling emotionally exhausted after family interactions You don’t have to choose between yourself and your parents. There are more options than you think. Join my Free Training to learn more about your options 👉 Sign up here: https://heyallisonly.com/secret 📅 February 26, 2026 (or visit the link for the next available training) And also learn practical tools to help you stop spiraling in guilt and start feeling more emotionally secure with your immigrant parents. ______ More From Allison Ly – Free Resources: Stop Spiraling in Guilt Cheatsheet For Setting Boundaries: https://heyallisonly.myflodesk.com/ch... 3 Easy Ways to Tackle Your Negative Self Talk: https://heyallisonly.myflodesk.com/start Get my Free Quickstart Guide to Help You Help Your Loved Ones: https://heyallisonly.myflodesk.com/re... Get my weekly emails with actionable tips, tools, and relatable stories for Adults with Immigrant Parents: https://heyallisonly.com/email Episode Timeline: 0:30 - Why This Work Matters 1:00 - The Immigrant Parent Experience 2:00 - How I Got My Time Back 3:30 - Real Example: Today's Letter 7:30 - You Have the Power to Feel Better 8:30 - Moving Out 13:00 - Breaking the Autopilot Pattern 15:00 - Join us Feb 26, 2026 Show notes and more at: https://heyallisonly.com/podcast/17