What to do when a child misbehaves? - Dr. Gordon Neufeld | Kids in the House 12 скачать в хорошем качестве

What to do when a child misbehaves? - Dr. Gordon Neufeld | Kids in the House 12

Dealing with Misbehaving - Dr. Gordon Neufeld addresses one of the most common questions parents ask: what to do when a child misbehaves. He explains that most problem behavior is rooted in instinct and emotion, so it’s ineffective to battle the symptoms. Instead, the guiding principle should be to do no harm—to preserve the relationship and the child’s dignity. Neufeld emphasizes the importance of “bridging” after misbehavior: reassuring the child that the relationship is intact before addressing the issue. This communicates, we’re okay, which allows the child to feel safe enough to reflect and learn. He reminds us that real change happens not during the heated incident, but later—through connection, conversation, and relationship. The incident itself simply alerts us to a deeper problem. True growth begins when we return to the relationship and help the child find their mixed feelings, move from mad to sad, and come back to their good intentions. Visit https://www.NeufeldInstitute.org for courses and free resources on attachment-based developmental science. #AttachmentParenting #ChildBehavior #ParentingTips #EmotionalDevelopment #AttachmentTheory #ChildDevelopment #NeufeldInstitute #GordonNeufeld #DrGordonNeufeld #HoldOnToYourKids