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Try Online Sex Therapy Risk-Free! - https://mycounselor.online/christian-... Read the Full Article Here: https://mycounselor.online/top-10-cau... Low libido or sexual desire in married women is a common reason for couples to come to sex therapy. Counselor and Sex Therapist Josh Spurlock explains the top ten reasons that married women don’t want sex. A common scenario in Josh’s office is a husband and wife that come in for counseling with a pretty good relationship, but they have a recurring conflict surrounding sex. The common story is the husband is feeling disconnected, rejected, and not wanted sexually, and the wife just doesn’t have the same desire level as her husband does. When this is the case, sex becomes a source of disconnection rather than connection. The top ten reasons that married women don’t want sex are: 1. Fatigue 2. Hormone Cycle 3. Inability or difficulty to achieve orgasm 4. A lack of emotional connection between couples 5. Physical pain 6. Trauma 7. Fear of Pregnancy 8. Body Self-Consciousness 9. The idea that sex is dirty 10. Busyness Why did I lose my sex drive? As a sex therapist, I spend a lot of time with couples that are having difficulty in the sexual part of their relationship. Most of the couples I see are coming to me, at least in part, because the wife is not interested in connecting sexually as frequently as her husband (though 1 out of 5 times it’s the opposite). When I start assessing the situation I usually find a combination of the following 10 causes for low sexual desire in women. They are all generally related to violations of the pleasure principle. Fortunately, they can all be treated with a high degree of success. Pleasure Principle All barriers to sexual desire for married women are usually related to the universal Pleasure Principle. The pleasure principle is simply this: We desire to engage that which we enjoy. We do not desire to engage in what we do not enjoy. It’s because of the pleasure principle that I never have a deep burning desire to be poked in the eye. I don’t enjoy it, so I don’t crave it. Each of the barriers to a women’s sexual desire makes sex not enjoyable for her. If it’s not enjoyable, why would a woman want it? Side note: To help you understand these 10 reasons I need to define for you the 2 types of sexual arousal. The first is subjective arousal. This is the awareness or feeling of being horny / sexually aroused. The second is physical arousal this refers to the physiological changes that happen in the body as it becomes sexually aroused (dilation of the pupils, increased heart rate, blood filling the genitals, increased body temperature, perspiration, increased genital sensitivity). It is possible to have one kind of arousal without the other, and each can lead to the other. 1. Fatigue First, men and women are different. One of the differences is in the way fatigue affects sexual arousal in women. Both men’s and women’s physical arousal is affected by fatigue, but women’s bodies are affected to a much greater degree. If a woman is exhausted physically, her body won’t respond with physical arousal, which means she won’t want or enjoy connecting sexually. If you don’t enjoy connecting sexually – you won’t want to connect sexually. 2. Hormone Cycle Second, A woman hits her sex hormone peak in her late teens to mid-twenties. As this starts to trail off over time, there’s usually still a hormonal surge that happens 1-3 days a month right around ovulation. The body says “Hey, I’m about to drop an egg, go find your man so you can fertilize it.” It’s pretty normal for a mature married woman to only experience what we call initiating desire (ie. a spontaneous desire out of the blue) a few days a month during this hormonal surge. For the rest of the month, it is very normal for a woman to connect sexually out of receptive desire. We’ll discuss these further in an article on overcoming the Hormone Cycle for better sex.... READ the full article here: https://mycounselor.online/top-10-rea... Josh Spurlock, MA, LPC, CST is a licensed professional counselor and certified sex therapist. Learn more about Josh here: https://mycounselor.online/christian-... SUBSCRIBE here:    / @lovemycounselor