She’s Not Hard to Get…She’s Hard to Want (The Dating Shift Nobody Talks About) скачать в хорошем качестве

She’s Not Hard to Get…She’s Hard to Want (The Dating Shift Nobody Talks About)

Dating didn’t just “change”—the incentives changed. In this video, we break down how social media, dating apps, and the attention economy flipped the old dynamic of mystery, scarcity, and pursuit into something very different: maximum visibility, endless options, and shrinking motivation. This isn’t about blaming men or women—it’s about understanding the system we’re all dating inside. If you’ve felt like modern dating is louder, faster, and somehow less satisfying… this will explain why. Timestamps 0:00 Intro — why this topic gets people mad 1:32 The key shift: “hard to get” vs “hard to want” 3:10 How dating used to work (scarcity, uncertainty, in‑person risk) 6:05 Why scarcity creates value (attention, time, access) 8:12 Social media changed the order of discovery (everything upfront) 10:48 Why men feel there’s “nothing left to chase” 12:55 The attention economy: likes, followers, validation as currency 15:33 When a person becomes a “brand,” the relationship dynamic flips 17:40 Dating apps and choice overload (too many matches, worse decisions) 20:18 Filtering, rotations, and why men stop competing 22:58 What got lost: mystery, gradual bonding, real investment 25:10 Why overexposure kills curiosity (and pursuit) 27:12 Where the “good men” went (private women, opting out, building quietly) 29:20 What to do now — navigating modern dating with standards 31:05 Final takeaway #dating #modernDating #relationships #socialMedia #datingapps #psychology #menandwomen #selfimprovement #attraction #datingadvice #psycheunfold