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Anxious-Avoidant Relationship: How It Can Work ft. Rikki Cloos

Is your relationship stuck in the anxious-avoidant "trap" or a cycle of pushing and pulling, ups and downs? In this powerful episode, I sit down with relationship writer Rikki Cloos (@anxiousheartsguide on Instagram and TikTok) to talk about why anxious-avoidant relationships feel so hard—and how to make the dynamic more secure. Here's what we discuss: 🔁 How Rikki broke up with her now-husband eight times early on in their relationship—and what finally helped them break the anxious-avoidant cycle 🧠 Why avoidant partners aren't “bad” or emotionally broken—and how anxious partners can unintentionally push them further away 🔍 The surprising ways anxious behavior can create avoidant responses in otherwise secure people 💬 How to stop blaming avoidant attachers and start reflecting on your own role in the anxious-avoidant dynamic 💖 What self-compassion actually looks like—and how changing your inner dialogue can transform every relationship in your life, by starting with the one you have with yourself 🔧 The art of healthy conflict resolution—why it’s essential for growth and how to make conflict feel connecting instead of catastrophic 📈 Why doing the work on yourself (even solo) can shift the entire energy of your relationships, whether platonic or romantic 🛠️ Practical tools, real-life scripts, and tangible phrases you can use in moments of conflict or disconnection 🌱 How secure relationships aren’t found—they’re built through emotional maturity, communication, and mutual effort Healing resources for anyone struggling with anxious attachment: Read dozens of free blogs on how to heal the anxious attachment style on my website, crackliffe.com Grab a copy of my new book, Needy No More: The Journey From Anxious to Secure Attachment, at crackliffe.com/needy Explore my downloadable healing toolkit for anxious attachers at crackliffe.com/starterkit Learn more about the Needy No More coaching program and set up a free consultation at crackliffe.com/coaching Follow @crackliffe on Instagram and TikTok for tons more content on all things healing anxious attachment  To connect with Rikki Cloos, visit her website at http://anxiousheartsguide.com/. Keywords: anxious attachment, relationship dynamics, attachment theory, self-awareness, self-compassion, conflict resolution, healing relationships, secure attachment, personal growth, attachment styles, compassion, relationships, healing, communication, emotional intelligence, self-awareness, personal growth, vulnerability