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Frank Yeomans The Paranoid SCHIZOID Position "Splitting" Projected Disowned Aggression

Apologies for aggressive editing cuts, it's due to the source material excerpts from BorderlinerNotes ‪@BorderlinerNotes‬ Aggression: Is It Yours or Mine?    • Aggression & the Paranoid-Schizoid and Dep...   The Paranoid-Schizoid Right vs The Depressive Left    • The Paranoid-Schizoid Right vs The Depress...   Explaining Object Relations Theory, Melanie Klein's developmental model: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paranoi... transcript: the paranoid schizoid position schizoid by the way means split the mind is split into two segments that don't connect aggressive feelings totally detached from loving feelings the paranoid comes from the fact that people who are not at ease with their own aggressive feelings don't see those feelings as in themselves but sees them existing in people around them so the other is aggressive i'm not that's where it gets dangerous if you see others as aggressive and you're threatened by them what are you justified in doing attacking so a lot of aggression in the world is carried out by people who do not see it in themselves and can be vicious in the expression of their aggression all the while thinking they're totally innocent of any aggression i had a borderline patient once who said her husband was the most horrible person in the world one day i got a call from the husband he left a message what do i do doc i forgot my wife's birthday and she threw the television across the room with me so she comes the next session and i said i got a call from your husband and she said yeah what a horrible person he forgot my birthday so i said well i understand you threw the television at him what else could i do he hurt me so this is the paranoid schizoid position even if you act in a hostile way the badness is outside then when this patient began to be aware that she could be aggressive too it's a sad realization but it's an important step in maturity because that's the reality of who we are and what the world is part of the paranoid schizoid position is the belief that you can find somebody in the world who is perfect who will just give you everything you want provide for all your needs that's what we call the ideal object or the ideal other it's a nice thing to believe in but the world doesn't offer that so if you advance from the paranoid schizoid position to the depressive one in addition to acknowledging your own aggression you realize that the world isn't going to give you the ideal provider the ideal leader the person who will solve all your problems