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11 Reasons Why Text Message Fighting Is Bad For Your Relationship

With more and more couples using texting to communicate, text message fighting is inevitable. ***If you want to know if your relationship is healthy or needs work, click on my quiz link below now: https://kristincoaching.com/will-my-r... And if you haven't visited my website yet, click on the link below to check it out: https://kristincoaching.com/ Although we all feel compelled to have in-depth conversations with our significant other over text, fighting over text might be the downfall of your relationship. Why? Because by doing so, your relationship is taking a lot of risks that can be detrimental to the relationship. During arguments, you want to put your relationship in the best possible scenario for success. And doing this over phone creates a lot of risks that many couples are unaware of. Here are 15 reasons why fighting over text is bad 1. There is a mystery how the other person is responding It is difficult to have a fight that is one-sided. When we express ourselves through text, we do not know how another person initially reacts to your statements, which creates a lot of uncertainty and doubt. 2. Tone of voice does not exist: There are many interpretations people can make in a sentence, based on the tone of voice. Often times in text fighting, couples can take a sentence and misconstrue it in a negative tone of voice. This allows for the fight to escalate and become a bigger deal. 3. Your argument is permanent It is not a good idea to have an argument be on "paper" so to speak. This can allow for couples to remember past fights and bring it up in the future. Leaving past arguments in the past is important. 4. Expression of emotions is limited Since there is no tone behind the written words, communication is limited. As a result, you are unable to express yourself in a way you could if you were in person, allowing a better range of communication. 5. The argument takes longer to resolve When we argue over text, the fight often lasts longer because it takes a lot of time for both of you to read and write. Often times we need time to think about what we are doing to say before we say it. As a result, most time is needed which can draw out the outcome. 6. You can't be sure it's private (who else is reading) It is important to keep your quarrels to yourselves. Your relationship is private, and sometimes having other bring their opinion into the mix can create more drama and confusion. It is hard enough to have a fight 1:1, but when another is putting their own emotions into it, that can make the situation much more challenging and worse. 7. You don't know if you have their undivided attention When you text someone, you do not know what else they could be doing during the argument. Are they in the middle of something else and not giving you the attention you deserve? 8. The fight could end abruptly Often times when we have texting arguments, it gives the other person power to just stop engaging without any consequences. If you are in person, it is harder for the other person to just "give up" and stop talking to you. Fighting over the phone could cause your other half to stop responding, which can make the situation worse. 9. You can't kiss and make up The purpose of an argument is so there can be a resolution at the end. If you both are not in the same room as one another, you miss out on the making up part which is a crucial part of arguing. You are depriving your relationship of the in-the-moment resolution, which isn't fair to either of you. 10. Harder to have empathy When you are not in a room with someone, you cannot pick up on their non-verbal language and facial expressions. This is much harder to feel what the other person is feeling, which often prolongs the fight because there isn't an understanding. 11. Regretful statements When the other person is not with you in the room, sometimes it gives us more "courage" to say mean things. Since we do not have to deal with the consequences of seeing their emotional reaction, we often say things that we can regret. This is not a good thing to do and can cause the situation to be much worse. In conclusion, a key component of having an argument is for there to be a conclusion in the end. If you or your significant other are upset about something, it is a good idea to wait until you are together to discuss the matter in person. This brings down the risk of creating more drama and negativity through the text messages and increases your chance a positive outcome.