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Your Brain Doesn't Want You Happy. It Wants You Safe | Dr. Elijah Frazier | The IT Show

The IT Show is done playing it safe. Edelio here. A few days ago, Will and I had a hard conversation. We realized we strayed from the original mission: to ask the questions nobody else is willing to ask. This episode is the reset. We sat down with Dr. Elijah Frazier, a man who went from sleeping in boiler rooms and being kicked out by his mother at 17, to becoming a renowned thought leader and doctor. This isn't a soft interview. This is an interrogation of the modern "Wellness Industry." In this episode, we dismantle the "Cult of Healing." We discuss why "trauma" has become a trendy identity rather than a wound to heal. We break down the impossible standards placed on men today (the "Stoic vs. Vulnerable" trap), and Dr. Frazier drops a bomb on the concept of Faith that might make some of you uncomfortable. If you are tired of the polished, safe, algorithm-friendly advice you see everywhere else, this episode is for you. ON THE TABLE TODAY: The Cult of Healing: Why your brain prefers "comfortable trauma" over "scary success." The "Hurt Locker" Protocol: A new framework for men in relationships. How to be "necessary" instead of just present. Survival Mode: Elijah’s raw story of growing up with a pimp for a father and surviving homelessness in a Chevy Caprice. The Great Deconstruction: Why Dr. Frazier no longer believes in the God he was introduced to 20 years ago. CHAPTERS: 0:00 - The Reset: Unapologetically Bold 02:32 - The "Cult of Healing" Explained 06:48 - Facts vs. Feelings: How to Stop Being a Victim 11:44 - Winning a Race You Weren't Meant to Run 17:45 - The Masculinity Trap: Stoic vs. Vulnerable? 24:04 - The "Hurt Locker" of Marriage & Relationships 34:00 - Creating a Safe Atmosphere for Men 39:25 - Origin Story: 17, Homeless, and a Pimp Father 54:35 - "I No Longer Believe": Deconstructing Faith & Religion 57:50 - Conclusion: Mental Sovereignty QUOTES FROM THE EPISODE: "The brain doesn't care about your happiness. It doesn't care about your success. All it cares about is being comfortable." — Dr. Elijah Frazier "A problem with a solution is just a choice. If you can articulate the problem, you don't have a problem, you have a decision to make." JOIN THE CONVERSATION: We are building a community of Independent Thinkers. If you disagree with us, tell us why in the comments. We want the smoke. Follow Dr. Elijah Frazier:   / dr.elijahfrazier   Follow The IT Show:   / theitshowreal   #TheITShow #MentalSovereignty #DrElijahFrazier #TraumaCult #MensMentalHealth #FaithDeconstruction #Podcast #RealTalk #SurvivalMode #IndependentThinking